Most single moms are very poor, uneducated, can't get a job, and if it weren't for government assistance, their kids would be starving to death and never have health care. Wow. Really Mike? I know a lot of people who were raised by single mothers or parents who aren't married and they are just fine. He'd lay a brick in Sweden. More often than not, baby comes first here. Of the 8 new baby photos in a news paper this week, only two had parents who were married. My teacher and her sambo (means same as in Swedish and applies to those living together) have two children and are expecting a third. Marriage may come later or it may not. People are very happy just cohabiting. They share the same rights as married couples here, so why get married unless it's something that's important to you both?
It seems to me in the US that many people get married BECAUSE of a baby, and that rarely works out. If you took away all reasons for marriage except deep, emotional, can't-live-without-you love, how many would be left? People get married because they are pregnant, because they are scared of ending up alone, for insurance purposes, for tax breaks, because they think it's expected of them, because they are devout in their faith and their hormones are in overload... The list goes on and on. We HAVE to get away from the attitude that a woman should absolutely marry her baby daddy or she's trash. Sometimes marriage isn't right.
And as a chubby chich I feel bad that I would even think it, but it must be said. If Huckabee is so concerned with the children of single mother's starving, maybe he should share some of whatever he's feeding his family.
Pretty pretty please don't you ever ever feel like you're less than
f**ckin' perfect!
Updated On: 3/4/11 at 09:03 AM