I just watched the pilot episode online. Not great. I'll give it a chance and watch a couple more episodes, but I much prefer The New Normal.
I'm finding it hard to care about the characters in Partners (although, it may take a few episodes to learn enough about them to know whether I care about them), and I have no sense of how they will grow and change. That they are established as best friends, who break up and then get back together in the first episode... well, that totally had no effect on me. Unlike, say, Will & Grace, who have a friendship breakup after several *years* of episodes--*that* had a big effect.
I do like Michael Urie, so I'll give it a chance. But the show does seem like a pallid rehash of W&G.
The New Normal, on the other hand, presents characters in a situation (having a baby with a surrogate, who, along with her daughter, is becoming part of their family) that you know will change them. Andrew Rannells' character is presented as self-centered, but you know he will be forced to change. Justin Bartha's character wants his life to be orderly, but of course having kids will disrupt all sense of order. And the surrogate mom (I forgot her name) is finding a family with the gay dads that she never had with her actual baby daddy.
Coach Bob knew it all along: you've got to get obsessed and stay obsessed. You have to keep passing the open windows. (John Irving, The Hotel New Hampshire)