"Stopping the demonization of cops cops would be start. There are bad apples in any group - cops included."
What would be terrific would be if the good apple cops would stop closing rank around the few bad apples and stop condoning what they do with their silence. And it would be great if the bad apple cops weren't such powerful bullies that they can silence the good apple cops and the communities they are supposed to serve and protect.
I have cops in my family (uncle, godfather, brother-n-law) and cops who are friends and cops in my life who are friends of friends. The ONLY cops I know who don't have unbearably thin skin when they get even a whiff of critique about cops in general are the women cops. Women cops that I have encountered in the world do not suffer from serious testosterone issues, as far as I can see. They don't strut, they don't pose, they don't make it abundantly clear they have chips on their shoulders.
You can't even suggest, as I once did to a state trooper I know, that the cops have something of an image problem (this discussion came after I had a ridiculous incident with a ridiculously Tom of Finland caricature of a state trooper) without setting off the most defensive round of "BUT NOT ME!!!' you could possibly imagine.
And yes, I know their jobs are terrible. I know they get exposed to humanity at its worst. And to top it all off, that humanity at its worst might try to kill them. It must be an incredible challenge to shift from serving the community to guarding themselves. I don't know if I believe a lot of them are very good at that.
I wish the good cops could speak up but obviously the bad apple cops are probably even worse to them. Asking for real community review boards is not the same thing as demonization.
Also, if certain people could stop white-splaining everything to the perpetually trod upon communities of color and not act like they are some sort of opposing players to your favorite football team, perhaps maybe civil unrest can be avoided.
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Updated On: 12/22/14 at 12:32 PM