Christopher,
Now COME ON! I have met, as I'm sure you have, many people who would never have even been able to go to college if it wasn't for the military. Many of whom are gay (which is one answer to the question 'Why would gays even want to serve in the military?')
I'm going to make a HUGE assumption about you right now, but I'm gonna guess we were both very fortunate in that either our parents or Sallie Mae paid for our education at Syracuse.
Yes...they made a choice...and in some cases, it was probably their only choice in order to pursue happiness as they saw fit (that, unlike working in a stable environment, is actually a guaranteed right). And our government has a responsibility not to put them in harms way unless absolutely necessary.
"I'm so looking forward to a time when all the Reagan Democrats are dead."