The Official Adam Pascal Love Thread, part 14, version 2.0 — Page 58

very true Em, and i think anyone who spent any time at the neder this summer saw exactly that.

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the tongue splitting comment was made by someone who does piercings i think... i'm not sure that was meant to perpetuate any fantasies.

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very good point

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i know for a fact that many of the fansite owners have their own personal myspace accounts as well, so they are not using their personal pages for adam-centric material.

and all i can say is that it must be nice to be perfect. i think we are all guilty of something in life and we shouldn't throw stones. a fan is a fan, there is no greatest fan, no mediocre fan, sure someone may have be a fan for longer than you (and that's a general you, not aimed at anyone) but that doesn't make them any less of a fan, or a bad fan.

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Well, yeah, but their are decorums of respect, no matter how long you've been on board. Being more devoted than a casual fan, or something, certainly doesn't give you the privilege to ignore them. And I think that's what these people think they have.

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I think they want everyone -- Adam and other fans -- to see. As some sort of status thing. But I also think there's a little bit of assumption that since he jokes about it, and they're big fans, they're "in" on those jokes and free to incorporate themselves into that, too. If that makes sense.

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It definitely makes me uncomfortable when I read things about his wife or his kids. I feel like I'm being invasive. It might be different if Cybele was producting herself solely as the wife as Adam Pascal and was very in-your-face about it. But she's not, she's doing her own thing. I felt invasive just going to her blog because I don't really have food allergies.

blek.

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i know for a fact that many of the fansite owners have their own personal myspace accounts as well, so they are not using their personal pages for adam-centric material.
But that doesn't make them "fansites", that makes them "the MySpace I use for my Adam fan personality".

No one here is claiming to be perfect, so I don't see why you keep pointing that out. We're saying we disagree with the way the manner in which they talk about Adam. We disagreed with the people that wrote fanfic stories about Adam and Anthony having sex as well. This isn't an exclusive reaction to your friends on MySpace, it's about anyone that objectifies Adam's personal life.

I also disagree with your claim that no one can be a better or more loyal fan. Ever hear the expression "fair weather fan"? It's found in any fanbase. I'm not suggesting that's the case here, but there is a difference between someone who likes Adam because "he's hot" and illegally downloads Adam's CD from a Megaupload link, and someone who owns the CDs, movie DVDs, etc.

I only mentioned the "biggest fan", because one person there claimed that they were Adam's biggest fans, so that made their behavior "OK". That's the kind of mentality that leads to the slippery slope of people thinking "Well, I'm his biggest fan, so it's OK if I lie to security guards and say I know him to get backstage. It's OK if I jump over a barricade to get to him because I want a picture. It's OK if I follow his car back to his apartment and wait outside in the shadows until he comes out again- Adam won't mind, I'm his biggest fan!"

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Yes, I don't think this conversation went along the lines of "we're better because" as some of our previous conversations have. What have been posted are our own personal approach when it comes to speaking of Adam, and what we find are appropriate for ourselves and where we draw our own personal lines. The reason why this group gets along so well in our conversations because for the most part we are on the same page as where the line becomes crossed. Does that make us any better, well that's neither here nor there. I just think it makes us more compatible and less dysfuntional then some of the other sites.

I totally agree with you guys. Personally, I'm weirded out when I hear people bring his family into things.

And skittles, that's really interesting. I love Titanic. Maybe I'll go watch that.

Oh God, this is embarrassing. This is Bohemian. BWW logged me in to my first account. *runs away*

Updated On: 11/5/07 at 04:50 PM