They can't think outside of their own skin, but it's less of an active stance or a feeling of superiority
I totally agree with this and maybe the way you are describing it is more palatable to the general white public than the way I put it: All of us who were lucky enough to be born white in this country are racist. It's IN us. It's in our DNA.
But that always brings the pushback of, "Maybe YOU are but I'm not. I don't see color." Which is a) delusional and b) something some of the most blatantly racists members of my own family ALWAYS say.
Here's the thing, and I think this is super hard for people to grasp and I see it here on these boards all the time. If somebody is pro-something, and we're not part of that something, it does not mean that the person is anti-us.
If you are pro-black people getting representation, it does not make you anti-white. If you are feminist, it does not make you anti-man. It's not about any of these things that people get upset about. If I am pro-gay, loudly and proudly, it does not mean I am anti-straight. My pro-gayness is not about straight people at all.
My anti-racism, is not anti-white. I believe any white person can honestly examine his or her life and see how the institution of racism has benefited us, and then confront the way it has harmed our brothers and sisters and others of color.
Frankly, I'm surprised more people who are supporters of the arts have not ever done this in their lives and still take offense when somebody suggests they do.
I think the thing that freaks people out the most, particularly people in the majority, is when we hear that it's not about us and our needs at all. BUT HOW CAN THAT BE? EVERY STORY IS ABOUT US!
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Updated On: 1/20/16 at 05:43 PM