I'm sure there are a bunch of companies that DO pair fairly -- but all the research proves that OVERALL that is not the case.
You can only TRULY compare with a woman with your exact background (years of experience, background) as you have at the same moment. Or compare a man with the colleague you spoke of that has the same experience as she does now. You might find out that a man matching her makes more than she is, or that you will make what she does now sooner than did she.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.