Horse Tears, my husband isn't your age and he has had to listen to hundreds of hours of Ethel Merman over four decades.
He doesn't HATE Merman, but privately (i.e., to me) he will admit that after three or four numbers it all begins to sound alike to him.
But then he never saw her live. For those of us who did, every recording brings back the thrill that was Merman live on stage, singing over an orchestra, usually without body miking.
(ETA it's okay to remember that until GYPSY, Merman starred in numerous musical COMEDIES. Her job was to deliver the jokes while singing (and then sing one ballad for contrast).
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I've been watching a lot of Judy Garland lately and with her, every thought or feeling she has when she sings is picked up by the camera. The result is emotionally devastating and it's no wonder she was a star of films and TV. (Obviously, she also knew how to dial it up for live concerts as well!)
But Merman is a very different type of performer (although the GYPSY material in the first link does show an unusual subtlety of acting) who never presented as well in recorded media.
Updated On: 8/5/13 at 08:37 PM