When I saw The Boys in the Band last month on a Saturday night, Carver, Bomer, Hutchison, and Watkins came out. As I was seated toward the front of the orchestra, by the time I got to the barricades the crowd was huge. So I was several rows back from the front of the barricade. Luckily, the helpful ladies (who had been frequenting stage door for TBITB frequently) in front of me handed my playbill up with theirs to be signed. I got pics of them from my place as that moved down the line. And I was grateful. Would I have liked it if the others cast members came out? Especially de Jesús and Rannells? Of course! But they don’t owe it to me. What they owed me was Broadway-caliber committed performances. And, in my estimation, they did that. I will say that when Matt signed my playbill, I yelled, “Thanks, Matt” from my place in the back. He looked up and made eye contact with me.
In reference to Parsons, my understanding is he was signing pre-broken-foot. It is also my understanding that he is supposed to still be wearing his boot/brace, but takes it off for every performance. I’m sure after the show, he just wants to get his brace back on and rest his foot. I just hope he isn’t doing permanent damage to it if that is the case.
I stagedoored 6 of the 8 productions I saw last month. I would’ve stagedoored Spongebob, but they don’t sign after matinees. My favorites stagedoors this trip were Skintight, Angels in America, and The Iceman Cometh for different reasons.
With Skintight, it was nice to not have a crazy big stagedoor crowd. It’s a small theatre so only about 30 of us so we got to all be right at the barricade. Only one person had obviously not seen the play that night. The whole principsl cast was lovely, but it was truly a privilege to be able to talk briefly to Idina as she signed my program, playbill and window card (which is now matted and framed in my foyer) and took a great selfie with me. I was also able to thank to her for coming out to stagedoor after If/Then in 2014 in the freezing cold a week after she had been off a few performances with the flu. I apologized for being so needy; she said something to the effect of, “Oh, you’re fine.” You will find our pic as my new profile pic. It’s the only stagedoor selfie I asked for this trip.
Angels was unique for other reasons. First, it was my favorite and most meaningful theatrical experience of the trip. Having lost several friends to AIDS, I wasn’t close to the barricade, but was still able to give Andrew Garfield a heartfelt thank you to him on behalf of my friends for his beautiful performance. He said the most beautiful thing back to me that I will cherish forever.
In regards to Icemen, I already knew Denzel wouldn’t be coming out. As soon as people found out, lots of them left. Which was fine with me because I was able to get right up to the barricade. As a result, as each cast member signed my playbill, I was able to tell them that this was my first introduction to O’Neill and had been excellent. They each seemed to find this meaningful.
The mom in the frequent stagedoor NJ/NY family next to me (at Iceman Cometh) annoyed me because she believed big stars should come out, mildly dissing Denzel. I let her know I disagreed because a) all they owed us is a great performance and b) if these stars came out, stagedoor would be crazy. She tried to counter that Bette did at least sometime come out wave. She also referenced Chris Evans coming out to stagedoor after Local Hero as if this somehow obligated Washington, too. And that Urie signed after Kinky Boots. I reminded her that he had to stop because it became unsafe.
I know I’m ranting and rambling, but my long-winded point is that no one owes you a stage door experience. But if you approach it with a sense of gratitude, you might experience some lovely moments as described above. I felt bad for Alison Pill at the small stagedoor crowd after Three Tall Women. She signed, but you could tell she was extremely uncomfortable. She declined one person’s request for a selfie and you could tell they were offended.
Updated On: 7/9/18 at 06:18 PM