jennab113 said: "GavestonPS said: "I agree re what the Murphys want to hear. Since DEH is fiction, I won't even get hung up on the fact that Evan's account must not sound much like Connor to them. There's plenty of willful suspension of disbelief going on, I suppose. But...
"All we see is sky for forever
We let the world pass by for forever
Feels like we could go on for forever this way, this way
All we see is light for forever
'Cause the sun shines bright for forever
Like we'll be alright for forever this way
Two friends on a perfect day"
I was a teen half-a-century ago, a much more innocent time. No internet, no Watergate, no MTV or skateboards, much less skateboard videos on MTV. I was pretty sensitive and had plenty of sensitive friends, but I can't imagine any of them talking in the language of "For Forever".
You wanna hear about a "perfect day"? It rained several inches one afternoon (S. Fla.) and a bunch of us high school kids (not an athlete in the bunch) played football at the local junior high, sliding around and tackling one another in the mud for hours. (I don't mean that to sound erotic.) My best friends were among the players.
But as you said first... DEH is fiction."
So what I highlighted is the difference... you had friends. Evan doesn't. He desperately wants a connection with people, but he's so shy and anxious that he can't connect. He's not a typical kid. He doesn't have friends that he makes silly videos or plays football in the rain with. He fell out of a tree and no one noticed and he really wanted someone to notice. He's also obsessed with trees and worked in a park. So when he makes up his perfect scenario, he and Connor are doing stuff that Evan likes/wants because it is his story. His story also is built off of the conversation happening right before the song, plus he told them that Connor didn't want people to know they're friends (hence why they're the only two in Evan's story). And Evan is told that his make believe Connor doesn't sound like actual Connor.
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Beautifully put, thank you. I appreciate the additional info on the show.
I shouldn't have used the word "friends" in my post. It was more like "kids I knew casually from school." In my mind at the time, I was just as alone as EH. Probably wasn't, but that's how I felt. Of the group playing football, I only knew where on of them lived.
Nonetheless I never spent a day with anybody admiring scenery (not even in my imagination). High school boys have too much nervous energy.