Steinfeld was not an Oscar-nominee at the time of that event. She'd done some TV, but True Grit was her first film and major role. I know that Steinfeld was not a nominee at the time and that TRUE GRIT was her big break, I was simply saying that Steinfeld got the better end of that stick, she went on to become an Oscar nominee while Michele will probably never get to that level. And yes, the only reason Michele apologized to Steinfeld was to manage the bad publicity around her.
Here's what Joan Rivers had to say when asked to make a joke about Lea Michele last week (and I paraphrase): she's just like a penny, she's two-faced and completely worthless...love it!
"Some people can thrive and bloom living life in a living room, that's perfect for some people of one hundred and five. But I at least gotta try, when I think of all the sights that I gotta see, all the places I gotta play, all the things that I gotta be at"