Posted: 4/30/15 at 3:34pm
I'm with kdogg36 on this one.
The SO at Fun Home was in no way typical of the de rigeur SO that most shows get. Gigi, It Shoulda Been You and (gulp!) Dr. Zhivago all got those SOs where a few people stood at the beginning and then the herd mentality took over and everyone stood. I know this because I did NOT stand, but from where I was sitting at each of those shows, I could see that I was one of very few who applauded but didn't stand.
Fun Home, at the performance I attended, had nearly the whole audience on its feet, as one, before the lights were fully out and then back on. And the whole vibe of the applause was much different, somehow more appreciative. There wasn't the screaming and the whoohoo-ing that generally greets the more popular cast members, either, but genuine shouts of "Bravo!/Brava!" and a true feeling of having shared an extraordinary experience that was both profoundly personal and universal at the same time. People left the theatre in near silence, many, if not most, wiping tears away, some so moved they had trouble leaving their seats they were so overcome by emotion. In recent seasons, the only two shows that I witnessed that kind of feeling were Next to Normal and American Idiot. All three shows hit nerves and opened feelings in vastly different groups of people that attended each one. But the shared experience and outpouring of appreciation at all three were nearly identical.
When people ask me why I love live theatre more than film, I point to these examples.