Oh, please with the threatened violence. He never meant it, and more importantly, SHE knew he never meant it. I say this kind of thing all the time. There is no line crossed, no safety concerns.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.