Incident at Signature Theatre today.....

Saddened and disgusted by something that happened at Signature Theatre Company today. I'm not posting this to bash what is a wonderful company, but because sometimes wonderful companies need to be aware of how their employees behave.

A group of vision impaired audience members were at the matinee today. A few minutes before curtain, a blind woman named Dawn sitting in front of me asked for help finding an usher so she could go to the ladies' room. The House Manager told me "that's not my problem, I'm not here to take care of them". So, I walked Dawn to the bathroom and had to find a woman in the audience kind enough to take her in for me and help her to a stall.

What bothered me even more than her refusal to help, though, was how she said RIGHT IN FRONT OF DAWN, "I don't have to help THEM." As if they don't matter. As if Dawn didn't matter. Dawn isn't an animal or a robot, she's a human. She matters. So, when I got back to her seat, I leaned forward and apologized for the House Manager and that Dawn had to hear her say that. "I'm used to it," she said. My heart broke.

You know, I've been a House Manager many times before. I worked in even more stressful situations, like tapings of Inside The Actor's Studio. I don't care how stressful or tired or frustrated you are. If you can't take a moment to help someone WHO CANNOT SEE find a bathroom, then you need to find your superior, excuse yourself and come back with a brighter outlook the next day. Or find another job that doesn't involve being around other people.

No matter how tired or stressful you might be, try to remember that person who is going through your life without the ability to SEE is probably a helluva lot more stressed and tired than you've ever been and ever will be. And if that doesn't work, try to think about what it might be like if you go blind someday and can't find the bathroom on your own...

If you're so inclined, please share this. I know I have many usher friends who would NEVER treat a patron like this. I made several complaints to her colleagues and intend on writing a letter to the board. I hope Signature makes sure that this never happens again. And I sincerely hope that if that young woman ever finds herself in Dawn's shoes, she is shown more kindness than she showed today.

UPDATE: I called to file a more formal complaint. They brushed me off, said they knew about it but that their staff did all they are "legally obligated" to do. Seriously? Disgusting. I will think long and hard before buying tickets there again.

Terrible. Sure, maybe LEGALLY obligated, but what about morally or, god forbid, HUMANLY obligated.



Please still write the letter, I'm sure (or at least hoping) that their board will care more than the house manager.

that is disgusting what that house manager said. absolutely awful. and the way the theater handled it when you called was equally terrible. I've worked with the some blind people, and they were lovely humans. that house manager shouldn't be working with people if that's how she treats the disabled.

dramamama611 said: "Terrible. Sure, maybe LEGALLY obligated, but what about morally or, god forbid, HUMANLY obligated.

Please still write the letter, I'm sure (or at least hoping) that their board will care more than the house manager.

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Or if their board doesn't care some of their sponsors might - like, for example, TDF's Accessibility Program would probably be interested in hearing about this.

That's awful. To think that there are people that rude/cruel working in commercial business makes me sick. I'll think about this the next time I consider going to the Signature. Terrible.

Yes, disperse the story far and wide. We all know that social media shaming often has a greater impact that person to person communication these days. It's devastating to read this. Theaters are often among the most disability unfriendly places, unfortunately.

Good for you, iluvtheatertrash! I share the hope that you will follow through with the board.

I do not and have not run a theater in Manhattan, but I think a case could be made that merely seating blind patrons and then refusing to guide them to the restrooms is NOT, in fact, an example of full compliance with the ADA.

He claimed that they discussed with this group TWICE before attending that they could not "touch" them and that they offered all of the help they are legally allowed to offer. I have been to MANY theaters across this city where I have watched countless ushers offer an arm to a patron struggling with stairs. It may very well be the law -- I'm not actually sure if it is or not. But y'know.... Sometimes compassion and kindness have to come first.

I'm a playwright, and I've got my picture and name on Twitter. So, I realize that I could be burning a bridge here by being so vocal about it. But my mother raised me with a strong sense of right and wrong, and what I witnessed today was absolutely wrong.

One thing I'd like to note: the group certainly did not have enough aides to care for all of them. But I noticed MANY audience members like myself offering aide and assistance, going far beyond Signature's staff.

THANK YOU, BUNNIE!!!!!!!!!!

I'm really, really appalled. Does anyone have any advice on my next step? I tweeted it to Daphne Rubin Vega. Thought Saldivar was on Twitter but can't seem to find him....

And yes, I have to agree. I'm more shocked by their response to what I'm telling them. What really gets me is that they're treating me like I'm overreacting. I mean.... Am I so out of reach here to think that how I was treated AS I HELPED SOMEONE IN NEED and how, most importantly, DAWN, was treated was wrong?

Let me just reiterate: I do not know Dawn. I am not involved in the group that was there today. I paid for my ticket and wanted to help someone who needed help. That's it.

Actually, this is kind of a Michael Riedel type story. You can go to the NY Post website and his column, and email him.

The thing I don't understand about their response is even if they're not legally allowed to help someone (and I'm sure you could help someone to the restroom without touching that but let's set even that aside for a minute and assume they really couldn't help since I know people are afraid of being sued) the problem is the way they treated Dawn and spoke to her. (Or rather spoke about her in front of her face.) There is a way to politely tell someone you can't help without treating people as sub-human.



I used to work with adults with developmental disabilities and unfortunately it did nothing to improve my faith in humanity...

I'm guessing the issue isn't touching in a battery sense (which yes has to be unwanted) it's a civil liability concern. It's not that it's illegal to touch them; it's that if they try to help and while helping the person falls and gets hurt, the person may claim negligence and sue. If you do nothing there's not that risk. (Same reason people certified in CPR used to be afraid to help before most states enacted Good Samaritan laws.). So it's probably not illegal but is probably not technically permitted by the theater (or more accurately the insurance company). They put those policies in place to cover their asses but I'm sure many ushers disregard them to help someone in need.



But like I said, even if the usher didn't feel able to help, that doesn't excuse the lack of common courtesy and human decency in the way she spoke to the individual.