I've been following this thread with interest because I'm an opera lover, but didn't think I'd get involved because I've never been able to convince anybody of opera's necessity through words. You have to just go, because it is often, at it's best, the ultimate immersive experience, deeply involving as it unfolds, in a very, very personal way. And you probably have to keep going (and listening at home), because, like any great art form, there's a learning curve, especially at first (how many of us hated Shakespeare in high school, only to become adoring devotees as growups), and also because opera isn't just one thing. I once took a newbie to La Bohème, usually a good first opera, and he was bored. But he thought Meistersinger a few months later was fantastic! My young nephew found Peter Grimes thrilling, but the following year was merely polite about Lucia di Lammermoor. You just never know. I myself thought opera was very strange, way too long, and with unpleasant screaming instead so singing, when my parents took me as a kid, and I never had that one aha! moment, but somehow over years I developed into your typical obsessed opera fanatic. It's so huge and thrilling and overwhelmingly fulfilling that I can't imagine life without it. It feels like a necessity to me, so it's hard to acknowledge that most people get along just fine without it.