Something tells me that after being called an n-word who should be shot, Lilias doesn't feel like being gracious in public. Making her a punching bag for racists hopefully will have its consequences"
The hard of hearing woman who originally shared her story is NOT responsible for how other people responded to her post. She did not ask for people to go after White. In fact she repeatedly, explicitly said she believed White meant no harm. For an able bodied actor to refuse to apologize to this woman (and the disabled community) because of the actions of folks who had nothing to do with it is gross.
For goodness' sake, no one is saying that Lillias has to eat crow and beg for forgiveness from the masses, but a simple apology for the hurt her mistake caused would have been wise, particularly as a public figure. The bashing she received afterward from some should have no bearing on whether or not she acknowledges that the misunderstanding caused someone grief, which it clearly did.