Are you guys talking about meeting Patti LuPone? Or are you just setting this poor person up? I met her at the Fox Theater in Atlanta this past May after she did Matters Of The Heart, and that totally doesn't describe my experience. I will give her credit, she wasn't a total bitch, but she was very obviously "politely annoyed" by the process. I read in Sondheim Review that she's usually starving after a performance, so maybe I should have brought a sandwich along with my Evita poster.
I only ask about the "setting up" thing, because prior to meeting her, a friend of mine was all, like, "She's soooo sweet!!!" and after I related my experience she cackled (CACKLED, I say!) and said, "Haha, she's such a bitch!" Not that it made me love PattiLu any less.
Anyway, yeah. That's my story.
And no one grew into anything new, we just became the worst of what we were."