I know the stage direction you refer to. I've always loved the startling quality of it. Nevertheless...I remember always being relieved when Loveland ended and the sun came up.
Dorothy Collins's her performance had dark colors, shockingly dark colors, but there was something so essentially sweet about her persona that you kinda thought Sally was going to be all right somehow.
And Alexis Smith was so dynamic that she would end up looking good, even if her world had crumbled.
That point of the original production seemed to be about surviving, not about nihilism or hopelessness.
It wasn't just Dorothy's sunniness and Alexis's dynamism, it was the virtuosity of the staging, the magnificence and grandeur of the sets and costumes, and the various peak levels of excitement that Yvonne DeCarlo/Mary McCarty/Ethel Shutta and some of the others brought to the show.
Those women were not old crones who had lost their magic. They still had it. They were "still here." They may be fat, they may be old, they may walk with a cane, they may be bitter, they may be disappointed by life, but three cheers and damn it they're still here. That's the show I remember.
But, as Reginald Tresilian frequently reminds me, my memories frequently take on lives of their own. (Like the characters in Follies, no surprise.) So I remember feeling that we've been through the storm and we've come through the other side.
But then I would look at the faces of most of the people I dragged to the show and they would look thoroughly depressed.