Wow, I'm suprised they gave you a refund without a fight.
I totally understand your POV, about seeing what you want instead of something you feel you would just "endure". While I did go see this back a Xmas, there are plenty of shows that I just have no interest in: ROA, Rain, even Jersey Boys (Despite glowing reviews, I just don't care to see it.)
I can't say I'm GLAD to have seen Spidey, as it was worse than I could have imagined, but I know for myself. (But I won't be going back to give it a second shot.)
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.