"That IS actually unreasonable. His first priority it to his health. Not fans of his or the show. If he's on vocal rest there is no reason he should put himself, his voice and his future in harms way cause a few people wanted to see him perform again. The expectation is what's unreasonable."
You definitely misread my post. I was saying for a fan who doesn't obsessively stalk Steve Kazee's life, it is reasonable for them to expect to see him when they attend the show. Especially if that show is his final performance. Also, according to everything I've heard, vocal rest has NOTHING to do with why he isn't there. Which is fine, he needs to take care of himself and his life, but I just want to point out I am in no way suggesting he do something that damages his voice permanently.
I'm sorry, I know shows will never do it because it's a money-loser and makes them look bad, but I really do hate that people will spent hundreds of dollars on tickets, flights, hotels, etc. just dying to see a performer they love and end up so disappointed. Things happen, it can't be prevented, and most times I think you don't stay disappointed because the show is usually wonderful anyway, but I do have quite a few friends who were absolutely dying to see his performance and tried multiple times over the past six months and failed each time. Nothing you can do, but unfortunate.
"Get mad, then get over it." - Colin Powell