John Adams said: "ljay889 said: "This is such a wonderful song."
It's one of my all-time favorites from musical. It's special to me because it's a song about relishing and being satisfied with what you can and do have, as opposed to bemoaning what you don't have or can't have. It's about fully knowing, and having confidence that the "incomplete" love you have can be, and is just as strong as any other.
When Barbra changed the lyric from "or expect his tomorrows" to "I don't butter his toast", she downgraded that message significantly. IMO (and admittedly, I may be alone in this), changing the lyric to something so drastically polar from the original message and as insignificant as 'buttering toast' demonstrates a lack of understanding/appreciation for the material.
I first heard this song almost 40 years ago. As a gay man who's lived nearly all his life being denied the right to marry, I've always appreciated its definition of, and its permission to accept that love is love; it is not restricted to a social or legal definition.
These lyrics in particular have always resonated with me:
I don't share his name
I don't wear his ring
There's no piece of paper saying that he's mine
But he says he loves me and I believe it's true
Doesn't that make someone belong to you?
The Bergmans have written a beautiful song. I wish Barbra demonstrated more respect for them and their work. I wish she had more faith that the music she's producing on this album might be able to stand on its own - because she is Barbra freakin' Streisand.
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Love this song, but I wish there was a version of the lyrics for a straight male to sing about a female.