Rainah said: "The gay stuff has always landed super poorly with me. Not that a high schooler would make that comment, but that the SHOW itself (the framing, music, direction, lyrics, etc) treat it as a joke. It's funny because people will think they're gay, and that would be awful.
The worst part is Sincerely Me is a heck of a song and probably my favourite off the album tune wise. I love so much about the song otherwise. And I think there is room for some of that content, with a more critical narrative, which DEH does not have.
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I think the comedy comes more from a challenge of masculinity and the awkwardness of the situation than a parody of the LGBTQ+ community or even being gay. Evan, who is incredibly socially awkward already, is put into an even more awkward situation. On top of that, now he has to deal with clarifying that he isn’t gay, mostly because the people he’s trying to convince are the parents of the girl he likes. It’s comedic because of Evan’s reaction to an increasingly ridiculous and twisted situation. He’s not scared of being gay, just messing things up for himself even more.
Also, basically every line Jared says is a politically incorrect dark humor comedic relief bit. In a show with a plot as messed up as this one, that stuff becomes pretty funny. Please don’t be offended. Dark humor is dark for a reason, because it’s able to sort of transcend boundaries of what you can or cannot joke about. It’s only meant in the best way possible, either to start a conversation or to ease you up a bit. Think “Everyone’s A Little Bit Racist” from Avenue Q. None of it is meant seriously, but there is a reason that number lands so well. It’s so horrible that it becomes funny. Likewise in DEH, basically everything you could possibly say about the show’s sense of humor just comes down to that same ideology. Granted, it’s not always funny to everyone. That’s the point, so you think about what was just said and why a character would say it. Then you’re, like, SO much closer to understanding the point of the show.
Updated On: 8/4/19 at 08:28 PM