Posted: 12/21/15 at 3:58pm
I'm having too much fun reading the outrage of some (presumably very older) men at the 'other board' complain about females using male bathrooms.
http://talkinbroadway.com/allthatchat_new/d.php?id=2317158
Posted: 12/21/15 at 4:06pm
Updated On: 12/21/15 at 04:06 PM
Posted: 12/21/15 at 4:13pm
Because if a man had done the same, and walked into the ladies room….you can't have it both ways.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 4:17pm
Updated On: 12/21/15 at 04:17 PM
Posted: 12/21/15 at 4:18pm
If that happened, you would have the equivalent of a nuclear blast.Why not have gender neutral so no one gets their nose out of joint?First come/first serve and no line jumping. Problem solved.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 4:18pm
I also think it's situational. I'm all for bathrooms being open to both genders because it really doesn't make me uncomfortable. But someone there mentioned the Radio City bathrooms where the urinals are so positioned that everyone using one is particularly exposed, and I can't say that I disagree that it shouldn't happen there. If it's all stalls or there are urinal dividers? Go right ahead.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 4:27pm
Some abuse the privilege. I was turning around after doing a #1 at the movies. I was in the process of doing what men do before zipping up..Much to my surprise was a 5 year old girl standing right in front of me watching while her father did his business next to me. This guy obviously left his brains at the door.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 4:38pm
Kad said: "...or perhaps we should cultivate a society in which women needn't be afraid that a man is going to sexually assault them by making it less likely for men to sexually assault them.
If the countdown to curtain is running down, do whatever it takes to get those people in the bathroom. "
YEP!
The other thing you can do is try your best not to rush before the show, find your seat (do this first so you won't be flustered trying to get back to it), go to the bathroom 5-7 minutes before curtain, and you might be okay.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 4:42pm
People will find anything to be outraged about.
If she would have waited her turn and then come back 2 minutes after curtain everybody would bitch that she couldn't get back to seat on time.
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Posted: 12/21/15 at 4:42pm
I feel like a father bringing his daughter to the restroom is a separate issue. Thankfully, child-rearing is no longer the principal concern of women. As we undergo this societal shift (which has been happening for decades) other men have to learn to be more accommodating.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 5:05pm
Why is it men and females instead of men and women?
Posted: 12/21/15 at 5:08pm
Kad said: "...or perhaps we should cultivate a society in which women needn't be afraid that a man is going to sexually assault them by making it less likely for men to sexually assault them.
+100. *That's* why it would be a worse situation the other way around.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 5:11pm
So now every man is now a potential sexual predator. So much for innocent until proven guilty. By simply being male you are a criminal.
Nice to know that.I thought stereotyping was bad.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 5:24pm
Mr Roxy said: "Why not have gender neutral so no one gets their nose out of joint?"
Because men pee all over the d**n seat
and bs I absolutely agree that no ladies should be allowed in the men's room simply because it is more convenient... If it was the roles were reversed, it would be a major incident
Posted: 12/21/15 at 5:29pm
I always lift the seat if I use a stall. I also wipe the urinal for tell tale evidence that I was there Thank you very much
Posted: 12/21/15 at 5:29pm
Kad said: "...or perhaps we should cultivate a society in which women needn't be afraid that a man is going to sexually assault them by making it less likely for men to sexually assault them."
kad has a point everyone All men should be castrated!!!!!
Posted: 12/21/15 at 5:30pm
That was a cutting remark.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 5:36pm
Recently at the theatre I had a woman try to stop me from entering the mens room. She said her "lady friend" was in there. I told her I have no problem with that but I am not waiting for her to finish. She got all huffy with me and told me I was rude. I told her to enjoy the second act.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 5:42pm
During the original run of Purple at the Broadway, management was considering ordering all men from the bathroom to relieve pressure on the ladies room line from time to time.That would have worked out well had it ever been implemented. Imagine the situation in reverse.
If I am on line and a woman wants to wait in line behind me, I have no problem.How about letting women in for the stalls and men for the urinals?
Posted: 12/21/15 at 5:53pm
So now every man is now a potential sexual predator. So much for innocent until proven guilty. By simply being male you are a criminal.
Obviously not every man is a sexual predator, but if a woman is encountering a strange man in a vulnerable place, she cannot see into his head and know if he's safe or not. If this man is you, she cannot see into your soul and know that you will not hurt her. How would you want the women in your life to respond to this possibly harmless, possibly dangerous stranger--prioritize their safety or put the man's potential hurt feelings first? If it bothers you that women have to be concerned about these things (and that concern might bleed over onto innocent men) consider blaming the men who abuse women (not you! #notallmen!), and not the women who are rightly protective of their own safety. Pretending that the situations are at all similar if the genders are reversed requires willfully burying your head in the sand about the real dangers that women face from (some! not all! but we're not mind-readers!) men.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 6:00pm
The building I have my studio in has unisex bathrooms. You share the sinks and there are fully inclosed stalls. It was awkward at first but now no big deal. I think the concept would work very well in theaters.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 6:03pm
While I sympathize with your point, I still have a problem with the stereotyping. There is no.happy.medium I guess.
I can see someone following a woman in a strange dark place.The woman has every right to assume the worst. By the same token, a man can feel.threatened with a physical attack in a dark desolate place. I have been the victim of a robbery plus 2 or 3 other attempts so I am naturally careful and suspicious.
Posted: 12/21/15 at 6:04pm
But someone there mentioned the Radio City bathrooms where the urinals are so positioned that everyone using one is particularly exposed, and I can't say that I disagree that it shouldn't happen there. If it's all stalls or there are urinal dividers? Go right ahead.
I guess I'm not entirely following your argument here. For some unstated reason, you're implying that there's something wrong with women (or girls) catching a passing glance at men's genitalia. Well, wouldn't the same unstated reason apply to gay men (and boys)? Should they have separate restrooms? Obviously, that wouldn't quite solve the problem. :)
Posted: 12/21/15 at 6:15pm
If anyone wants to grab a look at my privates, my God have mercy on them .
Posted: 12/21/15 at 6:36pm
I confess. I used the men's room at Fun Home recently. I usually get to theater ridiculously early to use the rest room but got stuck in a parked subway and arrived just before show time... The line for the ladies room was huge (with no line for the men's room) and we were being signaled that the show was going to start soon. I was desperate. It was the men's room or the floor (and there is no late seating there).
I walked in quickly apologizing and walked out just as quickly when done. There were a number of men there - no one said boo. I would like to think that if the situation were reversed (which would be highly unlikely given the short lines at most men's rooms), women would be equally tolerant of emergencies. Will some complain? There are people who complain about everything, but when there is no alternative, what are you going to do?
