When I was a kid--and pretty much through high school and into college--people at Broadway shows wore really nice clothes...not "black-tie" formal, but formal.
It's different today. I could complain about how "relaxed" it has become, but why? What difference does it make? I don't sit in the theatre before the show begins thinking, "I cannot BELIEVE the slobs I'm surrounded by."
Frankly, I don't care what happens before the show begins. I also don't care about the "dress code." (It sure is a lot easier for me than it used to be. That's a
good thing.)
So if a bunch of "kids" are acting silly or stupid before a show, so what?
For all we know, this was their first time IN a theatre. Maybe afterwards, their "chaperones" said, "Look guys, next time, nix the wave." I mean, people have to GO to the theatre in order to learn how to BEHAVE in the theatre.
Not everyone has had the benefit of attending theatre as often as others. Liotte, if this really bothered you, the best thing you could have done was find someone associated with the "wave group," and tell them that you felt it was inappropriate or whatever. Then they would have something to think about the next time they attend a show.
Sometimes people have to be told they've offended someone in order to know it. It certainly doesn't seem that these kids were maliciously motivated to "ruin" everyone's enjoyment of the show. It sounds like they were just trying to have fun.
If that fun detracted from
your fun, you should tell THEM so that they can consider altering their behavior in the future. WE can't do anything about it.
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