The first time I saw BOM, I too was shocked when the lights came up and the guys were all in pink vests. However, seeing the show again and again, you can notice that the lights go out twice. The first time, for a split second, then they go out again and that first blackout kind of tricks you into thinking it's just as short, but when you know that they are using the time to put those vests on, you can sit there thinking geez, there is enough time to put the vests on, check to see if they're ok, have a stagehand run on and help........not all that impressive the second time around!
Of Mice and Men with that was on Broadway a couple years ago: when Lenny crushes Curley's hand (hope I got those names right) WOW i was sitting in the front row and there was the distinct sound of crunching bone, there was blood, there was something popping out of the actor's hand that looked like a bone........it was disgusting and shocking.
I have seen the Phantom 3 billion times and every time the Phantom disappears into the chair, I try to analyze what's happening but he really seems to just melt into the chair. And he always waits til the very last minute which stresses me out because if something goes wrong there won't be time to fix it before Meg's nosy self gets all up in the Phantom's business. The new tour was not as effective.
I recently took a graduate of mine to see the new Phantom tour, and when the Phantom dropped a set piece that was supposed to hit Carlotta, he looked at me and whispered "that was kind of a big mistake wasn't it?" I had to wait to explain that it was supposed to happen lol which I guess meant the effect worked.
Cinderella's second costume change was crazy. She was literally wearing ripped apart rags that turned into this huge insane ball gown. It was hard to accept that that happened in front of my eyes.