Would you fly two teens from CA to NY to see Hamilton? — Page 2

I'm torn on this. As a teacher, part of me says pulling your kids early in the school year 3 or 4 days isn't a great move. The routines and expectations have just been established and you're tossing that into the air. As a theater lover, part of me says, "Sure! If you want to plan a vacation around Hamilton, do it!"

Does your school have any long weekends in the fall? Holidays or conferences? I think if you're going to do it, having an absence on Friday or Monday is less disruptive then middle of the week absences.

JPeterman said: "Is it an option for you to just take your son? Then you could even go in the summer since your daughter wouldn't be going ... and it doesn't sound like your husband would complain if he didn't get to go.

The price of the tickets, plane and meals would be half, and your hotel room may be a little more affordable with two people instead of four.

Then in a couple years you could plan a different "senior graduation" trip for your daughter. "

I could just take my son, yes, I had considered that. Actually, airfare in the summer is more than 3x what it is when it is not a school break, isn't that unfair! Boo! Parents married to the school schedules go broke trying to fly during peak vacation times. Now I am thinking that even Spring Break 2017 will be terribly high .

I think that given 11 months, my husband might grow terribly fond of the soundtrack . But that could just be the optimist in me!

oncemorewithfeeling2 said: "I'm torn on this. As a teacher, part of me says pulling your kids early in the school year 3 or 4 days isn't a great move. The routines and expectations have just been established and you're tossing that into the air. As a theater lover, part of me says, "Sure! If you want to plan a vacation around Hamilton, do it!"

Does your school have any long weekends in the fall? Holidays or conferences? I think if you're going to do it, having an absence on Friday or Monday is less disruptive then middle of the week absences.

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No long weekends in the fall, sadly. My son gets Veterans Day off this year, a Wednesday, but it varies year to year (don't these schools know that I can buy theatre tickets 11 months in advance?!?). Holidays are a week in February, a week in March or April, Memorial Day, just Thanksgiving Day and the Friday afterward, and the Winter Break in December. My daughter can take off school anytime. If we are all flying out, I'd like to avoid potential weather delays and holiday fare gouging, so November and December are out.

Since only you and your son seems interested in going, why not just make a special weekend for the two if you?

Doesn't he get Columbus Day off? I'd also keep the days off to a max of two.

I don't think taking a day or two off from school is really that big of a deal, if it's seldom done. (And I'm a teacher)

My sister and I, (14 & 17) saw it together and loved it. We're both in American history right now, and it's helping both of us a lot. If you're ok with them being in the big apple alone, do it.

I'm a teacher and I say do it!!! You know your kids. If they typically keep up with their schoolwork and have good attendance, missing a few days isn't going to impact their educational career. A trip to NY, Hamilton... These are educational experiences. You will make incredible memories with your family that you will always cherish.

60 Minutes/CBS has already started 7:05CST/8:05EST. LMM/Hamilton is the third featured story. Currently the 2nd story is on the air. Sorry can't say much about it, I have the TV on mute. Just waiting for LMM section to come up.

PalJoey said: You seem terribly unbalanced, and I'm not comfortable with this wonderful show being paired with bad parenting.

It's icky to think this wonderful show would foisted on innocent teenagers by a parent with an unhealthy obsession."

Oh my goodness. Talk about drama. No, you show no signs of being terribly unbalanced or a bad parent or an unhealthy obsession. I see an enthusiastic parent who would like to share an interest.

I, also am a (retired) teacher. Take the days off. Enjoy. Don't even labor over the decision. (As long as hubby is on board).

Its an exciting adventure to look forward to. And it's not like you are just going to see a show. You are introducing your kids to "the greatest city in the world. (Work)".

No.

There is no urgency. Sleep on it.

Lately I've had a shift in my thinking. I'm looking at your situation as more of a mom than an educator. I'm in my 40s now. Of course, school is important, but missing a few days isn't going to keep anyone out of college. I'm not a parent, but several of my girlfriends' kids are either away at college or have a year or two left of high school. I just know how difficult it has been for them. They all have great relationships with their kids and they really miss them. I think this is a great opportunity for you to do something special with them before they head off to college. (As long as you aren't putting yourself into debt to do so.) You could go to a museum, go to the 911 memorial. The city has so much to offer... Many educational experiences. Riding the subway is in itself an educational experience.

Updated On: 11/8/15 at 09:36 PM

FindingNamo said: "I have a hard time understanding why pulling them out of school even needs to be considered? Do parents and their kids have no overlap in time off anymore?

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Perhaps not. I don't know. Every couple of years, I'll have a student miss a week to go to Disney. The rates are much cheaper during the school year than during peak season. The lines are shorter. Some families save for years to take their kids to Disney, so I can understand wanting to go when it's less expensive. I used to get all outraged over it, but really it makes sense. And if your child works hard, rarely misses school, it's not going to make any difference in the long run.

As one who visits NY just for shows [okay I do a lot more than just see shows, but that *is* why I visit]... I think you're awesome for thinking of it, but still don't think it's the greatest idea... and here is why:

- First of all: the cost for your family. $5000 for 3 days? I think you could do a lot more as a family for that and have a more memorable trip than a quick trip to NY and a race back to CA to get them back to school

- You mention the "history lesson" that can be learned by your kids-- but really all the history lesson can be learned from listening to the cast recording (or, you know, reading the book it is based upon... or the genius.com annotations). So that really isn't a great reason.

- It sounds like YOU want to see the show most, but don't mention whether your kids actually love musical theatre or would be interested in it. It may be a "memorable" experience, but will they truly enjoy it?

- If you are going to come to NY and really want them to get a history lesson, why not come a during a time that you can stay longer and visit historical places?!

- The show WILL tour and come to CA :) (And Lin-Manuel Miranda has said the show will be recorded with the original cast sometime before June -- it has probably been delayed because one of the cast members is out until at least January with an injury)

Updated On: 11/8/15 at 10:37 PM