Well I can tell you for certain there are definitely still threats being made, at least to Idina; I haven't heard anything about them receiving threats as a couple, though.
Andrew, tonight isn't about you! It isn't even about me!!! - [FD]
"This table, he is over one hundred years old. If I could, I would take an old gramophone needle and run it along the surface of the wood. To hear the music of the voices. All that was said." - Doug Wright, I Am My Own Wife
I think they were referring to the threats from last winter. While I am sure there are many narrow-minded people who disapprove of their relationship, I think it's a little presumptous to claim they are actively getting threatened.
Does anyone else think that this whole hate mail thing is going to start up again once Rent hits theatres? I mean right now, not many people know that they are a couple, but once the movie becomes huge(hopefully), the exposure might do more harm than good. And I believe it's perfectly plausible that they are still getting threats, it's just not public news. I hope I'm wrong but, that's just my feeling on the situation.