Moony, this is what this family has been going through...
My friend needs a kidney transplant, his wife was going to be the donor. They examined her and found a cancerous tumor on HER kidney! Then the same week, his dad was on dialysis, which started to fail him, and he passed away, just around Thanksgiving. They are testing his son now for compatibility, and meanwhile they want to start dialysis for him. Now this happens. They can't catch a break.
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.
Ralph Waldo Emerson