I'm not getting where Sueleen is being callous or out of line. Yes, it's sad that a man died. That is pretty much always sad. But it was his choice to live a risky life. And when people choose to do something risky, it...for me...takes the "tragedy" out of the equation, except for those personally affected.
I speak as someone whose husband is a climber...rock, ice, mountains...BIG stuff. He's one of those guys you'll see sleeping in a sling 2000 feet up Half Dome. It is his choice and his passion to do that and I support it because I knew the risks when I married him. If something awful should happen to him on a climb, it will be sad for those who knew OF him and tragic for those of us who loved him or knew him well, because of the loss and impact on our lives. But it will still have been his choice to take that risk, just as it was his choice to resume climbing after the broken back incident several years ago.
I, like Sueleen, don't quite understand why all rational sentiment needs to fly out the window when someone dies. If I was appalled by the Baby Bob lapse of judgement two days ago, why shouldn't I still be appalled by it today?
Sueleen Gay: "Here you go, Bitch, now go make some fukcing lemonade." 10/28/10