I Enjoy Being a Girl Vol 2!- Page 155

[killertofu333]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 12:40pm

Believe it or not the boy's got some booty. I can even tell when he's wearing baggy jeans. I'm not saying that my eyes are glued to his ass, but it's kind of hard to miss. He's not draggin' a wagon but he should be proud with what his mama gave him.

And his accent is cute too. He kinda sounds like Matthew Mcconaughey from Dazed and Confused as Wooderson. An "alright alright..." sorta thing.

[Madcap Maisie]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 3:42pm

Updated On: 6/11/20 at 03:42 PM

[StarStruckGB]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 4:24pm

A male friend of mine regularly get angry when I tell him I'm still single. He insists that I'm wuite a catch and have a wonderful backside, so how dare I be single.
I'm never sure whether to slap him or hug him.

[justagirl2]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 6:01pm

Aw, that's sweet, Star! And coincidental, because my best male friend regularly tells me I'll be single forever and that the only thing I have going for me is my ass.

I need new friends.

[xxnewgirlxx]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 6:07pm

I'll be single forever, too. I just don't know where to meet guys. My interests are theater and dance...not many straight guys there.

My latest "woe is me": the guy I was seeing on and off since this spring is now dating some HOT girl. He and I never were dating; just friends w/ benefits type thing, so I mean, on one hand, I'm happy for him. He wasn't the guy for me, so I'm glad to see him happy, but DAMN, does it have to be with such a fine woman? He recently joined FB and friended me, and all I see are these pics of his girlfriend from what is obviously her modeling portfolio.

Oh well, on the bright side, it's inspiring me to get on a weight loss program.ha ha ha.

[Schmerg_The_Impaler]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 7:40pm

Add me to the 'single forever' list. I only flirt with people I don't like, because I respect people who I ACTUALLY like too much to irritate them with my presence. ^_^ I don't think I'd ever have the self-possession to put myself out there as a candidate for dating.

[justagirl2]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 7:52pm

newgirl, I know how much that can suck. I'm sorry it's putting you in the dumps, but you're gorgeous the way you are...and I bet that most ladies have experienced the same thing. Even hot ones.

Also, neither of you will be single forever (unless that's what you want)! Oh, but Schmerg, I saw a girl today who looked just like you. I got really excited, but then remembered I'm not in NOVA. Sadness!

[Schmerg_The_Impaler]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 7:55pm

Jag, that is so weird. People think that I look like SO many people, but I think it's because I look like about seven different people depending on the angle. Haha.

[Pianolin717]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 7:57pm

NewGirl, tbh, I bet she's not as "HOT" as you think!!!!! But what JAG said! You will def find someone, it just has to be natural. And if yall can't find anyone, well, yall have all of us!

[StarStruckGB]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 8:55pm

I can't marry the-ladies-of-the-IEBAG-thread :0/

[killertofu333]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 9:46pm

Just to reiterate what Jag & Piano said, I think everyone will find someone. It might take longer than we want but it will definitely happen. I think you just have to be willing to find them in unexpected places and circumstances. I believe people sometimes think that they'll only find that special someone when they're actively looking for it, when in reality you could meet someone at the grocery store on a Saturday morning when you're not looking all that cute and a smidge grody in your oversized hoodie and sweats and they still dig it either way. It's like crazy sh*t aligns and there they are.

I'd like to find someone without actually going out on the hunt and looking for her. Maybe I should put in more effort but I'm a lazy bum as it is so... Instead of having to go through the rigmarole of a real date or being set up on a date, I'd rather meet a girl at the park, a jogging path, a store or someplace else equally UN-romantic to begin with. Hmmm, I'm weird.

[StarStruckGB]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 11:05pm

No, you're not.
I kind of hope I meet someone that way.

The first time I had to pump gas by myself, the first thought in my head was "I have the feeling I'm going to meet someone at the gas station one day" Haha. Or like, in the store because he's having trouble finding a birthday present for his mom.

I've always hoped it would be through some form of theatre, which would be more of a challenge...

[StockardFan]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 11:32pm

Meh. "finding someone" isn't always what it's cracked up to be. Sometimes I miss being on my own.

[StarStruckGB]

Posted: 11/9/09 at 11:56pm

I guess it's not so much that I want to "find someone."
I just haven't found the closest of friends in college, and sometimes I just wish I had at least one person who I knew cared about me as much as I care about them.

[StockardFan]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 12:15am

I didn't mean to sound so crass. I just feel that sometimes I wish I still had only myself to answer to.

You'll find someone...whether it be a friend or a lover who will be the right person for you. It just takes time. I didn't marry my husband until we were 36.

[StarStruckGB]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 12:24am

Stockard you were in no way crass :0)

::hug::

[justagirl2]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 3:34am

Star, I know what you're saying. I didn't make any real friends in college until sophomore year, and even then, it's, like...three people I really care about. The rest are just peripheral people that I'm not all that concerned with. But rest assured that at LEAST one person cares about you as much as you care about them. They might not make it clear, but I'd bet they do. Anyway, a bunch of internet strangers care, if that helps!

In "JAG has a very sad life" news, Mr. DUI just served his two days in jail for being a COMPLETE IDIOT back in May. He has informed me that he saw a guy get tasered, learned how to make a shank and his ass remains unharmed. Also, the food was better than he expected, because it's catered, and he met not one, but TWO guys who claimed to be Eazy-E's illegitimate sons. Thank god I got that guy out of my system, because...*headdesk* Updated On: 11/10/09 at 03:34 AM

[StageManager2]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 3:46am

^^^
Tell him to learn a trade!

Updated On: 11/10/09 at 03:46 AM

[StockardFan]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 7:07am

LMAO, Jag!!!

[lusciouslace]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 10:30am

Newgirl- I know how you feel. The girl I'm so nutso about right now used to sort of date a model. I didn't realize that when she told me about really screwing up a relationship a while back that she really regrets, that it was with the model. But one day a guy who's a mutual friend of ours (who doesn't realize that we're involved) was joking that we should send my girl some batteries in her care package (she's in Iraq). He was like "Yeah, she'd love that. We'll send her batteries and a picture of that one chick. Man she was so upset that she screwed up that relationship. But that chick is hot, so we'll send her a picture of her." O.M.G. You should have seen my face. He doesn't know about us or he definitely wouldn't have said that, but my eyes got really wide and I had the fakest smile ever and started talking through my teeth. "Oh...the model?? Yeah! Great idea. Let's definitely do that! How about you get all that stuff together and I will TOTALLY make sure that it gets in the box for her." My friend who does know about us realized that I was being facetious and about three seconds away from tackling the dude. He started laughing so hard he had to walk out of the room. I later said jokingly that I would send that pic, but then I'd through in a cd full of the pics from the photoshoot that I just did. I'm by no means a model, but those pics are pretty freakin' cool. I said I would tell her "Oh, that cd? Oh that's just some samples from my photoshoot. It's ridiculous there are like 150 pictures on there! Hahaha. Just wanted you to see them....all. And, oh yeah...there's also a pic of that one girl..." (Read that with an over enthusiastic sarcasm.)

Definitely is good motivation for gym time, right? And Tofu, don't yell at me. I'm not getting down on myself, but it's working. It's getting me to the gym. Haha.

[Pianolin717]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 11:08am

Aww! What a d-bag! (Even though he didn't know it at the time lol) and as corny and cheesy as this sounds, it's mega true. In all honesty, as long as you don't look like a foot of course, which none of yall do, personality DEF trumps looks. And the models are probably smokin' hot but also as bland as sandpaper. I'm 99% sure that both of you have more of a personality than those stupid chicks.

[killertofu333]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 12:14pm

Jag, I'm glad that that "manboy" is no longer in your life. I can only imagine the reunion conversation between you two: "Hey check it out. Not only can I brush my teeth with this but I can also shank a bitch out on the yard if he's late with my pack of Lucky's. SCORE!!!" That guy is the smartest mofo alive. Oh sh*t and he met Eazy-E's illegitimate sons?! With those guys being apart of N.W.A royalty I know his "cavity" was protected, cuz you don't f*ck wit N.W.A, they'll straight jack YOU!!!!!

L, I won't yell at you . As long as you're not saying it just to say it. I respect anyone who wants to change something about themselves if that's what they want to do.

Piano, I hope I don't look like a foot!!! An ankle perhaps but certainly not a foot. I had to develop a personality early on because people always and only pegged me as the smart chick or the nerdy girl because of my glasses and because generally I'm pretty quiet. I had to show them that yes I am smart but I'm also on the brink of being cast down to hell with nearly every comment I make .

[justagirl2]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 1:22pm

Aw, L! That's a good solution to it, though...just send a bunch of yourself (because I'm sure you're hotter than her anyway)!

"Tell him to learn a trade!"
He co-owns and manages a (really delicious) restaurant. Doesn't that make you feel better? He's also a "musician."

tofu, I think "Eazy-E's kids" were lying. JUST A GUESS. If they weren't, I'll be straight-up pissed because I want to meet them. "Straight Outta Compton" for the win! Updated On: 11/10/09 at 01:22 PM

[lusciouslace]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 4:00pm

Piano, Tofu and Jag- Thanks guys. I really wasn't upset by it...just annoyed, but it was funny. I'm not usually a jealous person AT ALL, but tend to be with her a bit. (I think it's just that if anybody is gonna f*ck this up it had better be her or me...I don't want somebody else messing this up...ya know.) And that guy tells me I'm sexy all the time (he's a self-admitted creepy old man) so I'm sure he'd be all for it if he knew about she and I (except that means he's out of the running...which he was never in...).

And yes, Tofu, it's for me. The tumor made me gain 75 or more pounds on top of my already heaviest weight. This is partially just my body getting healthy again and part just me feeling better and making some changes. I just want to feel confident when I finally get to see her in March.

[AndAllThatJazz22]

Posted: 11/10/09 at 5:49pm

I'm back. I don't even know where to begin. so much has happened. Let me first say that I am not ignoring you, but I have not had the time to go on BWW lately and occasionally I get to log on to FaceBook in public places via iPod, but other than that... I RARELY get free time to go on the computer these days.

JerseyGirl, welcome to the thread. I just can't even begin to tell you how badly I feel for you. In my recent experiences in life, I have learned that I can not control everything around me. Sh*t happens and there is nothing we can do. No matter how much it hurts, we have to learn to cope. Of course my recent experiences have been nowhere near as painful as yours, so I almost feel guilty to give you any sort of words of encouragement or advice because I honestly have no idea what you're going through. Sh*t happens in life that we did not ask for, but we just have to get through it... not matter how difficult that seems. Your story REALLY helped to remind me that I should never take anything for granted. Keep us updated on your mother, please!

"I don't think anyone can spend more than minutes in a high school theatre department and still have their innocence intact."
I thought High School theatre kids were perverted.... until I started riding the bus.

L,
Who the hell would send their friend picture of their ex?!?!?!!? That's salting a wound and the fact that anyone would even JOKE about that is so douche-y. I applaud you for not slapping that guy on the spot.

As for me, well... it ended like this. The boy and I had been friends for quite some time before the party, but at the party... he was flirting with me non-stop. Honestly, I had NEVER been flirted with before in my entire life and all the sudden... my friend-boy came along and just started hitting on me like crazy. I have had a few people like me before, but they were just stalker-girls who asked out every boy with a pulse, so I guess I was overly excited and I kept leading him on because I liked the attention. If he'd pull me by my tie ('twas part of my costume), I'd grab the top of his shirt and pull him closer to me. If he'd rub my hair, I'd rub his back. If he'd rub my chest, I'd rub HIS back. I guess I just liked the attention and liked that someone was ACTUALLY attracted to me... because as of that night, I could tell that he liked me and it felt nice to 'really' be liked (as opposed to "I don't have a boyfriend so I'm going to ask out Jazzy and stalk him before and after he becomes the 980198120938th guy to reject me" girls that I have become so used to).
I just kept on leading him on because I REALLY liked the attention, and I thought he was being pretty darn adorable. It wasn't until I left the party and he started texting me more than ever that I actually realized what I had gotten myself into.
Luckily, no one really remembered the flirting. A couple of my friends were getting pissed that I was spending too much time 'dancing' with him and not paying any attention to them, but it was a freaking halloween party! There were lots of other WAY more interesting things that happened that night and nobody really cared about what was going on with me and my 'boy-toy'. Most of my friends forgot right away too, because I started spending more time with them (at the party) and they got over it. Well, the monday that I went to school was really awkward. He kept flirting with me. He didn't come on as strong as he did at the party, but he was still flirting. I knew that it would be a bad idea to actually have a boyfriend, mainly because I ain't ready to tell my parents about my sexual orientation (not that they would react badly, I'm just not ready) and I would have to hide this relationship from my friends and family... which could lead to a disaster. If he would flirt, I wouldn't flirt back. Eventually he sort of backed off... but than he started up again. He started sending flirty text messages again... and this time they were highly sexual, and I felt extremely uncomfortable. I hated it so much and I just told him to stop. It's been a few days now and he hasn't really talked to me since. He made it pretty clear to me that he just wanted a friendship with benefits, and F*CK no that isn't what he's getting. Even if he WERE my boyfriend he wouldn't be getting *any* benefits. Oddly enough, the whole situation worked over with... and I don't feel nearly as guilty as I did before.