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#4426

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 1:11am

I'm inclined to believe that he just hasn't updated his MySpace...because it's such a wasteland, a lot of people haven't signed on to change their statuses lately. As for saying that he wasn't expecting it, that could mean any number of things, but doesn't necessarily imply that he has a girlfriend...could be that he was surprised he likes you that much so soon, or he wasn't looking for someone at the time.

The important thing is: do not feel bad about yourself. Even in the worst case scenario, it's not in any way, shape or form your fault. The responsibility lies on him in that situation.

It's up to you what you want to do...if you confront him, don't jump to conclusions. Have a conversation about past relationships and get some insight from there. Get solid, concrete facts and truths. I will tell you, this same thing has happened to me and I just let it go and cut him out of my life, but I sort of regret not epically bitching him out. Good luck with whatever you decide to do, Kels.

#4427

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 8:35am

That sucks, Kels..I would of course jump to the immediate conclusion that he was a lying douchebag, but I agree with Jag. You need to just ask him some questions. And if he IS a lying douchebag, DEFINITELY slap him at a minimum.

And Schmerg, I'm cracking up that you are chatting with someone you refer to as "Mustache". I love it and I hope you call him that while you are chatting!! And lol that my son is ten and probably wouldn't be able to grow a mustache for 10 more years!

"This show had the WORST magnets on Broadway!"

#4428

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 9:39am

I agree with jag and dan, you need to ask a him about it. And you don't have anything to feel bad about. You didnt sleep with a guy who has a girlfriend because you didn't KNOW of any girlfriend.

Schmerg..You crack me up. You should write a book!

#4429

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 9:45am

I love you girls.... GROUP HUG!

I sent him a message just basically being like this crossed my mind and I just need to know before things go any further. I will most certainly keep y'all posted!

"If we don't live happily ever after at least we survive until the end of the week!" -Kermit the frog "I need the money... it costs a lot to look this cheap!" -Dolly P. "Oh please, Over at 'Gypsy' Patti LuPone hasn't even alienated her first daughter yet!" Mary Testa in "Xanadu" "...Like a drunk Chita Rivera!" Robin de Jesus in "In the Heights"

"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofu

#4430

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 10:04am

Schmerg, I find it hilarious to picture a 6th grader with a Magnum P.I. mustache.....

Kels, just ask him about it. I know I have a myspace and I never ever go there.

KFTC!!!!!

#4431

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 1:03pm

Sorry I'm late.
Kels - I'm juts so sorry you had to go through this, I can't even imagine how you must've felt. I hope everything goes well with whatever you decide to do, and keep us posted! I wouldn't assume the worst until you know for sure, deep breaths.
::big hug::

On my end, I really have to solve this motivation problem. I've been such a depressed lethargic wreck this week, it's not good. But I might be seeing that boy I mentioned today so we'll see how the day goes.

Goshen doesn't do High-School-shows.

#4432

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 2:21pm

Oh my gosh, Kels... definitely confront the dude about that. I'm also in the 'he probably never uses his myspace' camp-- a lot could have happened since September. But even if it does turn out that he's a lying dirtbag, don't feel like you're to blame for his stupidity. You didn't do anything wrong... I'll definitely keep you in my thoughts. Let us know what's going on with this guy.

And Schmerg, I'm cracking up that you are chatting with someone you refer to as "Mustache". I love it and I hope you call him that while you are chatting!!
Actually, Mustache is known by all of his school friends as Groucho (some of them don't even know his real name) and his facebook profile pic is Groucho Marx-- although some people don't even realize that it's not him. But yes, I have plumbed the depths of mustache-related humor in regards to this dude.

In my pants, she has burst like the music of angels, the light of the sun! --Marius Pantsmercy

#4433

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 2:39pm

OH THAT GUY! The one who doesn't have a favourite Pokemon! XD

Wow, Facebook really does make people creepier.

Notes from the Earlham Street Gutter

#4434

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 2:49pm

Hahaha, you recognized Keith, too! (Keith was a friend of mine who moved away two years ago to Iowa and came back to visit this year... we had some messy business in freshman year where he mistakenly thought I was his girlfriend and I was having none of this, but he's a nice guy).

In my pants, she has burst like the music of angels, the light of the sun! --Marius Pantsmercy

#4435

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 9:37pm

I have no real news to report yet... he was on FB for a bit earlier so he probably got my message. He might end up being at this production of The Music Man I am going to tomorrow... but who knows. I think until thinks take a turn for the better I am going to pretend that the time I spent with him was just a dream.... because I am sick of being sad and mopey about it!

"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofu

#4436

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Posted: 1/9/10 at 10:08pm

BAH! Kels, so sorry about this whole situation! Def talk to him (which, you've contacted him, so that's good!) and try not to worry until you get something concrete!

#4437

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Posted: 1/10/10 at 2:15am

Don't stress about it, Kels. I agree with everyone else here when they say that he just hasn't updated his status. We're on your side. :)

"You have two kinds of shows on Broadway – revivals and the same kind of musicals over and over again, all spectacles. You get your tickets for The Lion King a year in advance, and essentially a family... pass on to their children the idea that that's what the theater is – a spectacular musical you see once a year, a stage version of a movie. It has nothing to do with theater at all. It has to do with seeing what is familiar.... I don't think the theatre will die per se, but it's never going to be what it was.... It's a tourist attraction." Stephen Sondheim

#4438

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Posted: 1/10/10 at 11:29am

"Wow, Facebook really does make people creepier."

One of my best friends is getting ready to leave her husband for a guy she met on Facebook. So, maybe Facebook does make some people CRAZIER.

"This show had the WORST magnets on Broadway!"

#4439

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Posted: 1/10/10 at 11:30am

Yeah, I am just kinda letting things be for now... like I am going to see Music Man today and my mom goes "are you sure you want to go? I mean he might now be there." And I was just like "That's fine. I was going to see the show- not to see him." And that is the truth. Obsessing over the pieces to this puzzle have gotten me nowhere, so I am just going to keep on going... and remember that he can't avoid me forever because the new semester starts in a few weeks and we have Chorus together *evil laughter* :-P

"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofu

#4440

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Posted: 1/10/10 at 11:35am

A teacher I worked with dumped her husband (who was in a career slump) when she reconnected with a High School sweetheart on Facebook, turns out he was high up in the Bill Gates regime and quite wealthy.

#4441

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Posted: 1/10/10 at 11:39am

Hells, I saw I saw something on CNN that in Britain something like 4 in 10 divorces mention Facebook as being a contributing factor...I can see how that could happen - all that reconnecting with old boyfriends. Luckily all my old boyfriends were losers.

"This show had the WORST magnets on Broadway!"

#4442

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Posted: 1/10/10 at 10:10pm

I've actually strengthened many of my friendships through FaceBook, and I've even had this one friend who FREAKING DECIDED TO END OUR FRIENDSHIP THROUGH FACEBOOK (*don't ask* That actually happened 2 days ago and I'm still pissed about it...). I haven't hooked up through FaceBook... yet

. Just out of curiousity, have any of you found me on FaceBook yet? I would add you ALL if I could... but long story shot, I can't exactly add you unless you're a youngster and ya live somewhat close to Tennessee. I'm pretty easy to find on FaceBook if your friends with Schmerg, so I was wondering if any of you had noticed me yet...

"There's nothing good on. The media hates Christmas. The media loves vampires, though. Maybe they will show a Twilight Christmas."
-Danmeg's 10 year old son.

#4443

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Posted: 1/10/10 at 11:17pm

I don't fit your exact specifications, but I haven't found you anyway!

If you're not Kels or JAG2, then no, we arent Facebook friends.
Let's fix this everybody.

Goshen doesn't do High-School-shows.

#4444

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Posted: 1/11/10 at 9:35am

So I have heard nothing, nada, zilch from this guy. It sucks and it hurts like a mofo, but I am refusing to beat myself up about it. He's such a freakin coward.

"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofu

#4445

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Posted: 1/11/10 at 10:58am

He's a f*ckhead, Kels.

"This show had the WORST magnets on Broadway!"

#4446

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Posted: 1/11/10 at 11:08am

Most men are.......

KFTC!!!!!

#4447

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Posted: 1/11/10 at 11:13am

Agreed. The jokes on him though... school starts on the 21st and we have the same friends... I plan on torturing him as much as possible because NOBODY gets to get away with treating me that way!

"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofu

#4448

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Posted: 1/11/10 at 11:17am

Stock, that is SO sadly true.

"This show had the WORST magnets on Broadway!"

#4449

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Posted: 1/11/10 at 12:24pm

LOL Danmag/Stock... so true.

Star, found you on FB!

#4450

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Posted: 1/11/10 at 12:46pm

I concur.

Piano-I saw! haha

Goshen doesn't do High-School-shows.

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