I'm sick..My boyfriend opted to go skiing...and I'm venting on BWW — Page 3

I would hate to have a boyfriend like this. A supposed "professional" man who is oh so very busy (while posting non-stop on message boards all day) and at his age thinks it is wise to complain about "relationship troubles" like a high schooler.

Face it, he's just not that into you.

Nobody on this board is into you, Master Bates, and yet you're still here.

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And maybe by the time he comes home, you will be feeling better and choose to say something like this to him:

"Honey, I'm so glad you went skiing this weekend! It took me a few days to get over this awful cold--and it turned me into a complete bitch! I'm a lot better now, and I'm really glad you're home. So, tell me: How was the skiing? It must have been really cold on those slopes!"

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Nobody on this board is into you, Master Bates, and yet you're still here.

L M F P R A O ! ! !

I have that mess blocked, such a non-factor, so not relevant and yet it feels the need to post in my threads. L O L ! ! !

Wow, what is going on between PalJoey and Liza's Headband.

The claws are out.

Meow. Scratch, scratch.

This thread has gotten so heteronormative. I think I'm going to The Eagle tonight.

This thread has gotten so heteronormative. I think I'm going to The Eagle tonight.

The Eagle has been heteronormative since they started letting the Hell's Kitchen boys in on Sunday nights.

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"The Eagle has been heteronormative since they started letting the Hell's Kitchen boys in on Sunday nights."

That may be, but I'm in LA.

Talking about yourself, again, Masturbates?

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I just sent Carlos a "Get Well" singing telegram...

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Hope you're feeling better, Carlos. It's your relationship, so all that matters is what you think. If his leaving you while you have a cold doesn’t work for you, then it’s not ok – for you. And I just wanted to add that I don’t think that people really change when it comes to things like this (in my opinion and experience). If you have a talk about your desires in an effort to change his actions and behavior, he may come around for a while, but eventually homeostasis prevails and he will return to his own ways. People show you who they are and what they are about every day. And they usually really mean to show you what they show you. If you don’t like what you see, just don’t expect it to change for the better (but do assume it may likely change for the worse). I’ve been married for a very, very long time. Traits/ behaviors/ways of thinking and communicating that I noticed on early dates and didn’t love about my husband (but tried to ignore because I was totally infatuated and was old enough to know that everyone brings something (many things) that would bother me) are still bones of contention 27+ years later. I love him, but some of those things, including behavior that manifests (to me) inattentiveness, don’t feel very good. I’ve gotten 2 incredible kids out of it, and have a great marriage and great life, but I don’t know that I would pick those traits again. I guess I’m just trying to remind you to value yourself and your belief/feelings system in your choosing.

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I want an update. Is he back? Did the talk happen yet?