I'm sick..My boyfriend opted to go skiing...and I'm venting on BWW

I'm sick. Common cold but still sick. It's been creeping up on me since Tuesday and reached it's peak yesterday. You would think my boyfriend would show me some concern, spend time with me and see to it that I get better, right?

Nope. Not my man. He decides, since I'm sick and can't really do "anything", read into that what you will, then he's just going to go with his friends to Vermont for a weekend of skiing.

Guess who just tied a big old noose around his neck, relationship-wise?

Updated On: 1/25/14 at 06:07 PM

Some people don't have that "concern gene" in them. Be happy that you found out now. If that's his only negative trait, then give him a break. Unfortunately, you can't make people give you concern, love and sympathy. You either have that character trait or you don't. Hope you feel better.

LOL @ CATSNYRevival...I needed that laugh.

@ ArtMan...oh he'll be getting a break alright.

So yeah...
This is how I feel

Well, maybe he'll come back with a broken arm/leg and you'll be well enough to go to St. Martin with SNAFU

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Well, maybe he'll come back with a broken arm/leg and you'll be well enough to go to St. Martin with SNAFU

L M F P R A O ! ! !

That would serve him right!

(double post)

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Updated On: 1/25/14 at 06:46 PM

see I would have SUGGESTED he go way for the weekend. You have a cold, not a broken back. He doesn't need to "Take care of you." You're going to be sleeping and watching Downton Abbey On Demand- let him ski.

But that is not the issue- you think he should have stayed he thinks it's a good time to clear out. You two are incompatible and if you don't let this go (fat chance) this relationship is doomed.

Updated On: 1/25/14 at 06:57 PM

JoeKv99, true, I don't really need to be taken care of. I'm a grown man and I am not in my death bed.

I'm just upset at the way it went down. I had no idea he had been invited to go to a ski trip and that he had declined because we had plans. He made no mention of it. So when I wasn't feeling well and he came out and said, "Well since you are getting sick then I am just going to Vermont this weekend with the fellas to ski" it was just so out of left field I didn't know what to think.

I didn't want to come off as selfish and I figured I wouldn't ruin his fun just because I was feeling under the weather, after all I was just going to spend the weekend in bed trying to get better and maybe it would be better if he didn't come over and risk getting sick himself.

He's a good guy, really. It's not something he does on the regular and maybe I'm just being overly sensitive because I feel lousy, I'm stuck in this bed and I miss him terribly.

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Funny you should mention LOST HORIZON besty. I was listening to the soundtrack this morning.

I was going to watch THE WAY WE WERE but then I thought to myself, "Stop being such a drama queen. It's not that serious."

LOST HORIZON it is. Nothing like a good Liv Ullmann musical to lift the spirits.

I might be compatible with Carlos' boyfriend. What's his shoe size, Carlos?


(Also, you're not REALLY breaking up with him because of this are you? If so, I have to ask, how many days have you been dating?)

No HorseTears, I am not breaking up with him!

I'm sick, I am cranky. feeling sorry and being melodramatic.

Shoe size is 11

L O L

Girl.. Are we going on about the imaginary boyfriend again? Ok. I will bite. Don't answer the phone for a few days and tell him you had a trick over.

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Espero que te sientas bien pronto. Voy esta noche con otros Puerto Riquenos a ver a Chita Rivera.

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