You know, I'm of a few minds about this. As someone who has spent the better part of almost forty years dealing with strangers' reactions to me being gay (or rather, their reaction to their
perception that I'm gay) I kind of get the feeling about wanting to turn the tables on people, especially if it beats internalizing their reactions and making yourself feel bad. At the same time, I know how just a few of those kinds of experiences can make you hyper-aware to the point of projection, and it turns out a lot of the time what you think is someone reacting to you has absolutely nothing to do with you at all.
And with the exception of the cop dicking around with his hat (which is just strange all around), I'm not positive that all of these pictures are telling the story that Morris-Cafiero purports them to be telling. Like with her sitting on the bleachers with the guy smirking behind her - I can certainly see that he looks like he's smirking and maybe he his smirking in acknowledgement of her, or maybe that picture just conveniently captures the narrative she wants for the project.
Going to her site doesn't really help, either. I'd probably have stared in this case, too - not because she's fat, but because she's a grown woman sitting glumly and alone on a swing while someone takes a picture of her. I guess - if I were there - I'd assume I wasn't even in the shot.
I get that, as society, we are often hostile and cruel to overweight people, which is why I feel a little awkward casting aspersions on this, but at the same time, I just don't know that I buy what she's selling here.
Updated On: 4/24/13 at 11:51 AM