I believe that as long as the fetus is growing in the woman's body it is her choice, since the continuation of the pregnancy affects her more directly than anyone else involved. If the relationship with the impregnating male is a good one, no doubt the decision made will be mutual. If not, they had no business putting the thing there in the first place. And yes, I know some women are stupid and take up with totally inappropriate men. Better to escape before attached by children than after, though. There are too many uncared-for children in the world and in this country now. But it is a wretched form of birth control, and shouldn't be used as such. "Sentencing" them to have the children, though, is not a good nor a sane punishment.
And regarding the previous adoption discussion, I believe the criticism was of those who would only accept a newborn, when there are so many needy children. Newborns need adoption too, but not ONLY newborns do. And I wholeheartedly agree that people need to be more responsible about their reproduction, both personally and for the sake of the planet's continued existence.
Updated On: 9/25/04 at 02:28 AM