Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder... Im too lazy to go back and look for the poster who said that, but I agree.
This sounds cliche, but Im a firm believer in looking for the beauty INSIDE a person and being attracted to that, rather than just their physical features. Sure, physical attraction is a must in a relationship -- who doesn't want to have someone they find gorgeous to come home to every night? -- but it's not everything. I love it when I find a really cute guy, who's cute in his own right, and I see something within him..... something I connect with and sparks with something in me.
There's this guy I know.... amazingly handsome, but incredibly humble about how good looking he is. To me, that made him even hotter. The more I got to know him, learn about him and REALLY connect with him, the more attracted I was and the more handsome he became.....
To me, a person who can make you laugh and someone you smile at the mere sight of, or the mention of their name -- *that's* a beautiful person.
I'll admit I had an eating disorder for a LONG time. I became obsessed with being the epitome of America's idea of beauty.
Im pleased to announce I stopped caring years ago.
"You're every gay man's wet dream!" ~ MA
If in Heaven you don't excel, you can always party down in hell...
Updated On: 6/28/05 at 05:30 PM