So, who actually has to work tomorrow? — Page 3
Posted: 11/24/06 at 3:28pm
If in Heaven you don't excel, you can always party down in hell...
Posted: 11/24/06 at 3:56pm
I guess it is easy for you to yell at a kid and tell him he should be thankful, while you are sitting at home not working. But really think about if you were him, I bet you you would be bitching too.
Posted: 11/24/06 at 5:21pm
He whined that he had to work at Starbucks on a holiday. I’ve got news – Starbucks is involved in the SERVICE industry, which traditionally operates on holidays (so they can SERVICE the people who don’t have to work.) As far as I know, Starbucks isn’t in the conscription or indentured servitude business, so that means accepting employment with them was voluntary. And if he accepted employment without knowing or understanding the terms, then being whiny is the least of his problems.
And speaking of SERVICE jobs, since he spent most of his original post being snide about how his customers order, he obviously doesn’t fully understand what his job actually is – which is to SERVICE the requests of the Starbuck’s customers.
I only referenced his age because, to my way of thinking, it’s the only thing that keeps his attitude within the realm of inexperience, as opposed to idiotic ignorance.
And what I’ll add now is this – if the demonstrated lack of interest in fulfilling voluntary responsibility and reluctance to miss family or other social events is even remotely true, then his question a few months ago about whether a 17 year-old should join Equity is truly and utterly laughable.
Posted: 11/24/06 at 5:36pm
You're all pretty.
Posted: 11/24/06 at 5:39pm
Lorna said so!
Posted: 11/24/06 at 5:40pm
Posted: 11/24/06 at 5:44pm
Did you ever know that you're my hero?
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Posted: 11/24/06 at 5:54pm
Diva - that's because you have beautiful eyes!
Posted: 11/24/06 at 5:54pm
I must say, I'm disappointed in some of you.
Vita, dulcedo, et spes nostra
Salve, Salve Regina
Ad te clamamus exsules filii Eva
Ad te suspiramus, gementes et flentes
O clemens O pia
Updated On: 11/24/06 at 05:54 PM
Posted: 11/24/06 at 5:55pm
Posted: 11/24/06 at 5:56pm
Posted: 11/24/06 at 5:57pm
Posted: 11/24/06 at 7:03pm
First of all, to Alfred2--you have absolutely NO right to comment on this thread if you don't have something than can add to the conversation. And I'm pretty sure that "Do us all a favor and change your avatar" did nothing but try to piss me off or offend me. Honestly, what's your deal? Yeah, I'll admit it. I sent you a PM asking you why you're such a prick. And I've still yet to have the question answered. It's a perfectly good question if you ask me...
DG, you are turning this thread into something it most definitely is NOT. I simply stated that I didn't want to work on Thanksgiving. Who would of thought I would want to be home with my family? God forbid! God forbid that yes, I am young, and this is my last Thanksgiving living at home. God forbid I want to see family whom I have not seen in three years because, oh wait, I've given up trips to be with them because I'm WORKING or DOING A SHOW! I love how you make it sound that I've made no sacrifices in my life because I'm younger than you. Anybody who is the theatre makes sacrifices. I've made PLENTY of them, and haven't complained at all. So, I sure as hell will complain if I feel like it when it comes to working at a job that I'm not crazy about on a holiday that means a lot to me.
And just for the record, I wouldn't complain a LICK if I had to perform on Thanksgiving. Performing is my ultimate passion. I think it's a VERY small price to pay to be on Broadway, and any actors who complain about that should leave now. There are plenty of people who would LOVE to perform on Thanksgiving. I was stating that I didn't want to go to a job that is strictly a paycheck and sacrifice my family time. And even Broadway actors get to spend the majority of their day with whoever they please, as most of the shows do not take place until 8pm.
Some of you people fascinate me the way you like to turn things around.
Posted: 11/24/06 at 7:05pm
People probably forgot or stopped worrying about it until you bumped this. Let it drop and go with the flow....dude.
Posted: 11/24/06 at 7:08pm
"I said my peace, and moved on. If it gets questioned, I'm going to respond. Pretty simple process."
Posted: 11/24/06 at 8:48pm
Updated On: 11/24/06 at 08:48 PM
Posted: 11/24/06 at 9:01pm
No, that is not what you 'simply stated' - you gave a little whine about having to work the JOB YOU AGREED TO WORK, and did it with a sarcastic, snide, oh 'woe is me you ungrateful world' attitude.
And you know what? Your family wasn't even mentioned until later. Initially it was all about poor little you, you, YOU.
And yes, I had a negative reaction to that occurring, on Thanksgiving of all days. You see, that holiday that you claim to hold so dear really IS about counting your blessings. And to have you, in your pitiful little way, complain about injustice when many, MANY people are facing TRULY life threatening existences is grotesque.
Do you have the right to be dissatisfied with elements of your daily existence? Of course, we all do. All I pointed out was that to express your dissatisfaction on that particular day in that particular way may be construed as MISSING THE POINT.
And this isn't even addressing the fact that you have chosen to follow all of this up with nothing but more defensive whining and pouting.
So, in the end, do you have a right to whine and pout out loud about the pain and frustration you feel in your life? Absolutely. And, do other people have the right to hear your protestations and tell you exactly what they think of them? Again, absolutely.
And I have - and I would again.
Updated On: 11/24/06 at 09:01 PM
Posted: 11/24/06 at 9:19pm
"We're all given a finite amount of time in a day, and it's up to each of us to determine how to spend it. In relationships (with kids, with a spouse, and so on), we're faced with many conflicts everyday, and you may be tempted to fight through each of these conflicts, to ensure you get your way, to prove that you're "right," or maybe just because you feel challenged. But most experts agree: choosing your battles wisely is a much better way of life than battling out every disagreement.
According to Dr. Richard Carlson, author of Don't Sweat the Small Stuff ... and It's All Small Stuff, "Often we allow ourselves to get all worked up about things that, upon closer examination, aren't really that big a deal. We focus on little problems and concerns and blow them way out of proportion."
It's up to us to choose to either make a big deal or simply let it go, and, according to Dr. Carlson, if you learn to choose your battles wisely, you'll be far more effective in winning those battles that truly are important to you."
http://www.sixwise.com/newsletters/05/05/25/how_to_most_effectively_pick_your_battles.htm
Vita, dulcedo, et spes nostra
Salve, Salve Regina
Ad te clamamus exsules filii Eva
Ad te suspiramus, gementes et flentes
O clemens O pia
Updated On: 11/24/06 at 09:19 PM
Posted: 11/24/06 at 9:25pm
A kid was just expressing his annoyance over having to work his less-than-desirable job instead of spending his last Thanksgiving with his family. Why does he have to be picked apart until he snaps?
Some things really aren't worth the high blood pressure.
Posted: 11/24/06 at 9:30pm
Vita, dulcedo, et spes nostra
Salve, Salve Regina
Ad te clamamus exsules filii Eva
Ad te suspiramus, gementes et flentes
O clemens O pia
Posted: 11/24/06 at 9:44pm
My apologies to the young man for any distress caused.
Posted: 11/24/06 at 10:13pm
It's symbolic of the "state of adolescence" in the U.S. right now... and I happen to agree with DG that it's cause for alarm.
The youth in our country (as a whole) doesn't appreciate what they have... they can't see beyond their own 4-block radius of life. They aren't aware... they aren't appreciative of the world around them, or those that came before them.... they only care about the immediate gratifications.
I find it sad, depressing and alarming... as does DG... and it is a battle well worth fighting, addressing, and "calling out"...
...but perhaps willact was used as a scapegoat to symbolize the youth of America... and perhaps the reaction that DG and I both had was disproportionate...
...but it shouldn't be dismissed either... as a simple whining about life, family, work, obligation and RESPONSIBLITIY.
I think those who say "lay off" should think a bit first about the consequences of letting ALL of our youths off the hook so easily.
We're breeding a nation of selfish, complacent and ignorant people... and that shouldn't be taken lightly, or "excused" quite so easily.
The consequences to our nation's heath and future ultimately will be downright dangerous.
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Posted: 11/24/06 at 10:15pm
Posted: 11/24/06 at 10:18pm
But eventually, there will be nothing to back up this entitlement, nothing to be "entitled to," because the priorities will have shifted among the population, and a stronger, more entrepreneurial mass of people will move in and take over.
That is the history of our world to date.
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