I didn't mean to imply that "you" couldn't -- just that there's the way many of us would HOPE we'd react, and they way we actually do. Until each of us is faced with the same scenario, we really don't know how we'll react.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.