I posted that on the main board, but I will reiterate some things here and apologize.
First off, I wrote this before I saw your most recent post Insomniak, with that comment I was referring to what I wrote about the suicidal girl.
Second, like I said, I did not mean w/ as you do that you don't love or admire people or that anyone loves anyone more, I meant it more as...no one including myself can understand the actions of another person unless they live in their head. If you see the actions of someone suicidal, like if they live their lives for one person sure they can come across as extremely obsessed or whatever...but then if they've been through such **** recently or maybe have some mental disorders and they honestly need to do so to live...that's all.
I didn't think this morning that i did respond to you and you started this thread and I am sorry for that, I did and would have removed that part at least here if I thought of that.
I still stand by the point that we shouldn't judge people until we walked their shoes, but again, I really didn't mean that comment to say you don't love people or the more obsessed fans love them more...sometimes the obsessed fans are the ones that say worse things about the actor and can end up loving them much less.
I mean when I said as they do, I really meant that in terms of everyone, even myself.
anyway, I really did not intend that all at you, I do understand why it was taken that way b/c sometimes I don't think and i could have worded things better and I apologize. Some other comments on the thread actually upset me a lot more. I just have some friends who have been suicidal in the past or have gone through bouts of depression and I got a little overemotional and overreacted. I will try to slow down my reaction and make sure I think things through and not get so heated in the future.
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