The Official Adam Pascal Love Thread, part three- Page 47
The Official Adam Pascal Love Thread, part three
#1150Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:16pm
My father is still so perplexed by Angel. He just... he won't even discuss her as anything but "the guy in the Santa outfit."
Ellie3
Broadway Legend Joined: 9/20/04
#1151Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:18pmIt's time for me to say nighties...fare thee well, all you pretty people! Extra kisses for Nia's avatar. 'Night!
insomniak
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/7/04
#1152Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:18pm
Emcee, lots of people do that when confronted with ideas.
Ellie, I agree. There is something theoretically nice about the multiple-partner relationship, but I wouldn't be comfortable with someone I loved sleeping with someone else... and how does it work? Are you in love with all, none or some of them?
If it works for him, I say let him go for it. But I think I'd be too confused.
theatrebabe
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/22/05
#1153Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:20pmnight ellie
"While some feel it is a film related question, I seem to think it may be a 'I am thinking of losing my winkie' sort of question."
-cheezedoodle
-cheezedoodle
Chloe
Broadway Legend Joined: 9/28/04
#1154Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:20pmTheatrebabe, I think what Anthony meant is that he's attracted to both men and women, though more to men. He doesn't like to call himself gay because he defines that as liking men exclusively, and maybe he doesn't like bisexual because it implies an equal attraction. Queer is loose enough to encompass who he feels he is.
#1155Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:20pm
His mind is the most tightly-closed door I've ever seen, nia.
(gah, edit! That totally made it look like I was talking about Anthony!)
And I think it's perfectly possible to be in love with more than one person, though I don't think I could ever live in an arrangement like that.
theatrebabe
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/22/05
#1156Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:21pm
wait,who's mind is a tightly closed door?
that makes sense Chloe
"While some feel it is a film related question, I seem to think it may be a 'I am thinking of losing my winkie' sort of question."
-cheezedoodle
-cheezedoodle
#1157Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:22pmI edited, but my father, theatrebabe.
#1158Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:22pm
Good night Ellie
I think in order for it to work all parties have to be equally committed, ie all in love with each other. admittedly not a subject I understand.
I stand corrected, you are as vapid as they say.
#1159Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:22pmWell I mean, like you say, a gay guy saying it...why would they think of themselves as bad? That's total self loathing. : P Lol I doubt someone is that bad like that...Being a different sexuality than others and insulting yourself so much...
#1160Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:23pm
Goodnight, Ellie!
I don't think it's self-loathing, so much as double standard, jeanclaude.
ETA - is it generally accepted that bisexuality implies equal attraction?
#1161Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:23pmI can't imagen what my father would think about Angel...
insomniak
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/7/04
#1162Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:24pm
In love with multiple people? Emcee, elaborate. I can't really imagine this, personally.
Jean, not so long as you mean it in a passing way that's unconnected to identity.
Chloe
Broadway Legend Joined: 9/28/04
#1163Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:24pmI can't seem to live with even one person (I lived with a guy for a long time, but he moved out a while ago) - maybe that's why the idea of a "commune" seems appealing from a distance. But of course it's so fraught with possible emotional complications that I can't imagine too many being able to cope with it.
#1164Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:25pm
I can't imagine being in the situation myself, at all. But I think it's possible. Men who are bisexual and married, for example. If they are legitimately bisexual (more than one that I have in mind - one who just got married and is rumoured to be gay gay GAY) - then I think they can be in love with whoever they're married to, as well as someone of the same gender. Maybe that's just me being idealistic, though. Or, even if the second of the two to which I refer is actually gay - I think he can still be in love with his new wife... just perhaps in a non-sexual way.
#1166Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:27pm
I don't care if you want to be gay, bi, green, or blue. If you're an asshole, you're an asshole and I will not like you.
But sometimes when a person is an ass and gay, I don't say anything...cause they always bring in the homophobe card.
So, this really has nothing to add...
#1167Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:28pmYeah, an asshole is an asshole no what they are..it's just how they argue about it that differs.
#1168Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:28pm
Nope bisexual is generally more of a "sliding scale" where you are attracted to one sex but still can be peaked by the other, in different levels for different people.
I also think that on some levels love and sexual attraction do not always completely mesh, possibly the case with your examples Em.
Being in a multi=partner relationship though would seem to imply equal attraction.
I stand corrected, you are as vapid as they say.
theatrebabe
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/22/05
#1169Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:29pmdo u have to be in love w/ all of them?cause it's definetly possible to have a "crush" on more than 1 person at a time
"While some feel it is a film related question, I seem to think it may be a 'I am thinking of losing my winkie' sort of question."
-cheezedoodle
-cheezedoodle
insomniak
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/7/04
#1170Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:30pm
I know what you are saying, Emcee, and I think it's a very complicated issue but that said person could love one sexually and another in a not necessarily nonsexual, but non-sex based way... sorry, I'm tired and not making sense.
But what I really meant to ask was if anyone thinks you could have three or four people all living and sleeping together and have them all be in love with each other as relationship partners and sexually and have them all be ok with that.
#1171Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:30pm
That's what I figured, Penguin. And I guess you can't really measure attraction at all. There was that wacky study recently that tried to, though. :-/
And exactly; love doesn't always equal sexual attraction.
ETA - no, that made sense.
theatrebabe
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/22/05
#1172Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:31pmalso,i think that everyone is bisexual to same degree,no one is truly completly straight,anyone agree?
"While some feel it is a film related question, I seem to think it may be a 'I am thinking of losing my winkie' sort of question."
-cheezedoodle
-cheezedoodle
Chloe
Broadway Legend Joined: 9/28/04
#1173Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:31pm
Oh I don't know, Thenardier. If it's clear you think the person is an ass because he's an ass, and not because he's gay, then it should be okay. (That sounded weird.)
Emcee, you're sounding like one of those blind item gossip things and you've got me all curious now.
ETA: god, I'm so behind!
Updated On: 8/25/05 at 11:31 PM
#1174Sunday in the Park
Posted: 8/25/05 at 11:34pmI can PM and tell you; I just don't like to post it. It's a pretty out-and-about rumour, anyway. Sorry for sounding so cryptic... I just, even in a thread that I doubt many read, don't want to blurt it out.
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