Whats your Deal Breaker?- Page 3

[Unknown User]

Posted: 1/15/07 at 12:10am

fer instance, GREY GARDENS is cool now, but thats because its been supported & talked about by nerds for the past 30 years!

[Perfectly Marvelous]

Posted: 1/15/07 at 12:37am

Aww, I love Namo's icon.



Anyways;

Poor hygeine/poor etiquette, no personality and/or being too egotistical, smoking [though it's something I've somewhat grown used to], apathetic towards STD's [as in not caring about using a condom, etc -- I wish I could have worded that better... oh well], ... and I think that's it, for the most part.

[secondstar05]

Posted: 1/15/07 at 2:16pm

I've come to realize that there is a lot that I'm willing to put up with, up until the point when a guy proves himself to be unashamedly homophobic, racist, closed-minded, etc.

Or if he had any plans to constantly force me to listen to his favorite band, Nickelback. *shudder*

[soapguy17]

Posted: 1/15/07 at 2:22pm

justagirl, that makes sense. Yay, to nerds! But, le sigh, I'm a nerd and I feel I must date a non-nerd to ballence things out.

[shameless]

Posted: 1/15/07 at 2:23pm

Bad or no sense of humor.

Taking themselves too seriously.

[papalovesmambo]

Posted: 1/15/07 at 2:23pm

tiff...republicans/conservatives? does this mean our bi-monthly rutfest is off? oh the agony!

[colleen_lee]

Posted: 1/15/07 at 2:36pm

-Unwarranted arrogance
-Negative Nellies/Debbie Downers
-Cheap bastards
-Smokers
-Hunters
-Anyone who talks about marriage/children within our first three dates

[munkustrap178]

Posted: 1/15/07 at 2:38pm

Feminine club whores.

The worst.

[harris007]

Posted: 1/15/07 at 6:18pm

totally agree

[Unknown User]

Posted: 3/10/07 at 12:36pm

i was reminded of this thread this morning.

on the subway platform, there was this very handsome guy, & he he had a 'fun' aura...someone you'd like to meet.

so i was enjoying watchin him out of the corner of my eye WHEN HE LITTERED!!!! he threw some kind of food wrapper down on the ground & my opionion of him plummeted.

[DayDreamer]

Posted: 3/10/07 at 12:48pm

he he

Even though I said pretty much only drugs before - intelligence of some kind is also de rigeur. If I can hold a conversation with you I find you totally hot.

One of the recent plays I was involved in had this VERY handsome guy in it. I drooled over him for the first few rehearsals until I had a chance to actually talk to him. No one home. And all fantasies were gone.

[harris007]

Posted: 8/4/07 at 1:10pm

bumps

[Steve2]

Posted: 8/4/07 at 1:43pm

Arrogance and dishonesty

[scott68]

Posted: 8/4/07 at 2:40pm

I'm bad when it comes to deal breakers. There was the guy who I was only attracted to when he gelled his hair. Although really, the deal breaker there was more that he thought an awkward squint constituted a "sexy face." And he made it EVERY TIME he tried to kiss me. No thanks.

Hmm... then there was the guy who said "rad" all the time. I can tolerate a little radness, but everything cannot be rad, I'm sorry.

[~FloweryFriend~]

Posted: 8/4/07 at 2:53pm

I always thought smoking was a dealbreaker for me, but I just started dating a smoker. :/ I'm sorta allergic, so I have to keep my distance when he smokes... I hope I'll be able to convince him to quit if this is going to get more serious. The second-hand smoke is killing me (more figuratively than literally).

I know what my dealbreaker is, but I don't feel comfortable posting it.

[RockabyeHamlet]

Posted: 8/4/07 at 3:20pm

Smokers
Alcoholics
Litterers
Immaturity
Men who overuse internet slang/intentional misspellings
Homophobics
Men with felony convictions
Men with wives
Ghetto wannabees
Bad hygiene
Tattoos
Piercings
Men who don't like animals/children
Hunters
Men lacking passion
Disrespect

*Its going to be a very popular convent.

Updated On: 8/4/07 at 03:20 PM

[ahmelie]

Posted: 8/4/07 at 8:09pm

If he has a problem that my best friend is gay.

I would date a guy with any other small problem under some circumstances. But if he didn't accept my best friend I would never ever go out with him.

[soapguy17]

Posted: 8/4/07 at 8:59pm

I've grown a lot in the past few months, and my list has changed a little.

Smokers
Extreme Arrogance
Laziness
No Ambition
Excess Drinking

[Elphaba]

Posted: 8/4/07 at 9:01pm

Tattoos
Piercings
Narrowmindedness

so you are not being narrowminded by having a problem with tattoos? Hmmmm?
You may want to take narromindedness off your list, or start not practicing it yourself.

[SweetQintheLights]

Posted: 8/4/07 at 9:10pm

HERE HERE! I am the president of the convent.

Oh dear, I won't even begin to post my list.

I don't even think the expectations I have for a bf are attainable. Oy.

[Malice]

Posted: 8/4/07 at 9:14pm

Can I join also? The older I am getting, the pickier I am getting, not a good mix.

[CJR]

Posted: 8/5/07 at 2:30am

There are several deal breakers:

if he refuses to use condoms and tries some stupid line on me like "well I just want to feel you." No. Get out of my bed, get out of my house, do not pass go.... JUST GO.

Addictive personality or EXTREMELY ocd. Have dated both kinds of guys before. Im just waaaaay too laid back for that.

Role play that borders on (what i feel to be) dirty and nasty. (ie: I am not going to the bathroom on you. I am not calling you daddy and Im not acting out a rape)

He doesn't get along with my friends.

He can't accept that one of my best friends is an ex (a lot of my BFs in the past have taken issue with this one)

If he's still living at home and is old enough not to be (and let's be honest, if Im dating you, you are old enough to be out on your own, supporting yourself).

There are more, but Im tired. lol

[DG]

Posted: 8/5/07 at 2:40am

What's my dealbreaker?

Dishonesty. In any kind of interaction or relationship.

Including message boards.

[Wanna Be A Foster]

Posted: 8/5/07 at 7:02am

Smoking
Drinking
Drugs
Not Circumcised

[midnghtdolphin]

Posted: 8/5/07 at 7:29am

not circumcised? that can actually be fun.