God this is absolutely ridiculous.
I'm sorry your feelings got hurt, but grow up. Instead of coming back and defending yourselves to people you don't know, take a lesson and learn from it. Either don't post videos, or learn to accept criticism.
When I was a theatre major we were taught that any critique, good or bad, if they justify it, or explain why they did or did not like it, makes it valid. And yes, "Just cause," is valid.
A few years back, I saw Fort Worth Opera do "Angels in America." I, on my personal blog, wrote a review. It got back to the cast and they were pissed and decided to personally attack me. In doing so, they ensured that I would never again go see an opera there, and potentially never go see an opera ever again.
The taste you're leaving behind, of people who don't want to see criticism, and will lash out at those who do critique, and insult them (and that whole "Well, let's see how well you do onstage" argument holds about as much water as a slotted spoon) can give the same effect.
I may not live near Long Island, but if I ever do, I doubt I'd go to one of your shows. Aside from the fact that I thought both Follies and Once On This Island looked terrible, your insistence of defending yourselves and calling the posters here names combined with the fact that you have yet to even JUSTIFY one of your decisions about casting, direction or design has totally turned me off of your company.
http://www.youtube.com/huskcharmer