Seb28 said: "nasty_khakis said: "LarryD2 said: "Matt Cavanaugh in the 2009 revival of WEST SIDE STORY:https://nypost.com/2009/11/06/west-side-whack/"
I worked FOH during this and while I can't say I was present for the actual conversations it seemed to just be Arthur's fickleness. He basically was in LOVE with Matt until one day he wasn't and was basically ice cold to him, not renewing his contract in favor the new stand-by Jeremy Jordan who Arthur was in more than love with basically. Then, oddly enough, Jeremy himself talked about how Arthur one week said he was the best he's ever seen the role/he's a revelation/what an angel to being told he's worthless in an email from him. Arthur was...Arthur."
I have had this experience in a production once, where the director and producer was narcissistic. He had a long history of this kind of behaviour. He came into my dressing room, was totally enamoured by me, promising me a more luxurious hotel than the rest of the cast, totally putting me on a pedestal, which I truly didn't want but I always reacted gracefully and professionally. And then after a month, he fired me, it turned into blind hate, he couldn't even stand to look at me or talk to me any longer, he just erased me.
The worst part here is that I was very professional and kind and everybody else in production liked me, and it was like he became jealous of that. This whole issue had nothing to do with work, professionalism or quality. It was purely the fickle love bombing turning into hate bombing of an unstable narcissist.
I was devastated, I gave blood, sweat and tears in the grueling audition process and my family was so proud I had landed this job. I now had to explain to them and my agent that I was let go. I really had a hard time processing this. I also started to realize that this must happen everywhere. And that every little personal obsession or hate projection of a person can erase you in showbusiness.
I wish there was more we could do about situations like this. Maybe
a psychological test for directors, or look at their past, or put more people in charge of a production that do not allow these kind of personal things to happen, who look at the professional stuff, it's very difficult."
I'm sorry that happened to you. People think being a professional is being a straight up jerk and it's really not. That seems to be a problem in every industry.