I'm definitely one of those people who does value acting over singing. Don't get me wrong, I am blown away by amazing singers, and when someone does an amazing vocal job I am definitely likely to gush about it.
BUT, the thing is NO show really works if it doesn't make you feel something, you know? I don't think any show could really be THAT great if you cast people who can see their butts off but don't get you to feel anything for the characters.
Preferably you would have people who can both act AND sing their butts off. But it IS sometimes possible to get away with having not-as-spectacular singers if their acting is incredible. It's a lot harder to still have an effective show if the cast can sing like crazy but are weak on the acting.
Of course it also depends on the show and the character- certain characters in certain shows don't really drive the emotion behind the show but yet have some really memorable musical numbers. In that case, the vocals might override the need for perfect acting. But MUCH of the time, I just find myself much more invested in shows where the acting is strongest and the singing follows.
That's why Idina will always be my favorite Elphaba- I DON'T think she's the strongest Elphaba vocally, but to this day the vulnerability with which she played the role strikes a chord with me in a way that no other Elphaba (except maybe Eden) has.
I don't need a life that's normal. That's way too far away. But something next to normal would be okay. Something next to normal is what I'd like to try. Close enough to normal to get by.