Robbie, we should be clear that Joanne is singing about upper-middle class women of New York only. Obviously, she isn't talking about the working class.
In my view, the ladies who lunch are those upper-middle class women. They are the ones with the income and leisure time to have luncheons rather than, say, grabbing a sandwich in between nursing shifts at the hospital.
All of those women have too much money (and often too much education) and therefore too much time on their hands. So they play at improving themselves in dilettante fashion (girls who play smart) or they try to be the perfect spouse and mother (girls who play wife) or they sit and drink themselves into a stupor while making sarcastic comments about the others (girls who just watch).
All of these are "girls on the go", running from their fear of death but really running in circles and going nowhere, i.e., the "ladies who lunch".
OT, but I finally caught Julia Roberts in MONA LISA SMILE, a much better film than I expected. It takes place at Wellesley in 1953-4 and details exactly how the most brilliant women in the country were educated to be the "ladies who lunch". The film portrays Wellesley in that period as a "Joanne training camp".
(I'll shut up on the subject now until you have a chance to respond. I trust that my remarks here convey nothing but respect for you and your views, even when we disagree.)
Updated On: 8/14/12 at 05:55 PM