I don't know what state she's in but most 13 year olds can't legally hold a job. So right now her options are allowance, odd jobs in the neighborhood, or babysitting. Most retail/food places won't hire under 16 and even that is pushing it. I've worked at several different retail stores in my life and none of them had any employees under 18. There were a few times I'd seen 16 year olds where I worked but most often the manager ended up being sorry they hired them.
"All our dreams can come true -- if we have the courage to pursue them." -- Walt Disney
We must have different Gods. My God said "do to others what you would have them do to you". Your God seems to have said "My Way or the Highway".