"Consider myself lucky that they are even giving me the time of day? They should consider themselves lucky that I pay $130 to see them act! They are paid to be public figures and I do believe autographs come with the overall experience. That can make or break a theater goers experience with a show.
And the actors don't have to "pretend to be your friends", only sign the pictures and autographs that people are entitled to. Plus sometimes it's nice to meet actors even for a show you didn't see. I think it helps the communal aspects of Broadway and building the theater as a warm, welcoming place. It's pretty despicable that some actors don't stage door... after all who's supporting their celebrity status?
I know i've begun to send around a petition to a number of Broadway producers and a couple already support my ideas."
If an autograph makes or breaks your enjoyment of the show, then you have issues. It makes it sound like you go there not caring about the show itself but rather about the stuff you receive.
"We like to snark around here. Sometimes we actually talk about theater...but we try not to let that get in our way." - dramamama611