And what's all this $hit about "the theme of codependency"?!
I'm gen-x, not millennial. But yes, viewing from a 21st century perspective, codependency is a central theme of the show. The old-school role assignment of stand-by-your-man for-better-or-for-worse to married women. The laws and mores of the era play a large part in fostering the codependency, but it's there, nonetheless. It's laid out plainly in the lyrics as well as in the plot. Both Julie and Nola stay with their respective men until they are abandoned. Queenie stays with Jim despite often saying he doesn't provide much reason for her to stay. Nola ends up being more resilient than Julie and Queenie displays more gumption and self-awareness (and as I said before, this theme is all the more obvious when Ah Still Suits Me is used). Can't Help Lovin' That Man is initially performed by those three women and we watch as how this philosophy affects each of them and their relationships.
"What can you expect from a bunch of seitan worshippers?" - Reginald Tresilian