The thing is that most people fight with problems that are much bigger than themselves, whether it's mundanity, lack of purpose, emotional scarring and financial problems. We all put on masks of indifference, elitism and spite to survive each day, and when we come home we find ourselves unable to take these masks off. Then what started as a good intention; discussing topics of mutual interest with other people, turns into mean spirited remarks and thoughtless putdowns. It's not just you it happens to, it's everyone. You haven't done anything wrong, so ignore what they say and treat people the way you want to be treated. It's a problem we all have.
"There are only two worthwhile things to leave behind when we depart this world of ours: children and art."
-Sunday In The Park With George