People coming here ARE looking for opinions, as are the folks that I MIGHT make a reccommendation to. I'm not better than anyone because I have a different opinion, but my opinion is valid. I've certainly been able to tell people that I might not have enjoyed something, but based on their tastes their would.
Frankly, if I was going to the theater and I was stuck between a show that no one liked, and one that others did, I'd rather see the one that people are praising. Certainly, there's no guarantee that I'm going to like it, or that I wouldn't have liked the lesser appreciated show -- but you make educated guesses to which one you might enjoy more.
I never wanted to see Rock of Ages. It sounded like a show I would dislike (for a lot of reasons) I didn't go see it for the longest time. I finally went and saw it with my sister (as I thought she WOULD like it) I hated all but about the first 2 minutes. The comments I saw/heard gave me accurate information -- because I'm intelligent and can figure out how that info works for me.
It's not like anyone here is stopping strangers in line for tix telling them NOT to buy a ticket. No one person -- or even the slew of us here have the powere to make a show succeed or fail. But what we can do is give out the information as we see it. I think you could take the overwhelming majority of the posts here on BWW and assume the words IN MY OPINION exist.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.